12 Years Old & Having a Pregnancy Scare

Twelve And FreakedOut writes,

Well, im 12 Years Old-&& Havinq A PreqnacyScare. Well, Last Month i Started My Period The Same Exact Day As My Mom.  _&& A Few Weeks Aqo Me And My Off-&& On Boyfriend Had Sex. -&& This Month My Moms Period Has Alredy Come And Gone.  -&& Yet, Mine Hasnt Started. Wouldnt i Have Started About the Same Tymee As My Mom?-&& Im Havinqq Symptoms Such As Weiqht Gain, Morninq Sickness, Nausea, Missed Period, Breast Pain, Abdominal Swellinq Bloatinq -&& Pain, Fatique, Constipation, General Weakness, Vaqinal Discharqe, Loss Of Appetite, Frequant Uranation, Liqht HeadedNess, BackPain-&& BodyAche.

Im Very Scared Bckus i Havent Bouqht a Test Yet. iPlan On Buyinq One Very Soon But i Would Like to Hear You Oppinion. Please Help!

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  1. Hannah says:

    Dear Twelve And FreakedOut,

    Were you and your boyfriend using condoms or any other form of protection? Are you on birth control pills? I would definitely recommend you take a home pregnancy test as soon as possible. How long have you been having your period (ie since you were 10 yrs old or for the past couple of months, etc.)?

    Keep us posted please,
    Hannah

  2. Heather says:

    If you just started you period then you might not be on a cycle yet. Meaning that yes you started your period but it could be different then your mother, you could get it every 6 or 8 weeks expecially if you are just starting your period. If you and your boyfriend are having sex the chance of pregnancy is ofcourse there. Try to not stress, becuase that can cause a period to be late. Take a home pregnancy test asap, I know you may be scared but you should talk to someone. I was young when I concieved a child and the hardest person to tell was my mother but it made things a lot easier.

  3. elyse says:

    hi i just had sex with my boyfriend . i am 40 and i have every sign of being pregnant but i am not having morning sickness, if i am pregnant i would be 3 weeks pregnant or less. i took a online pregnancy and it said it was not sure. i also took a home pregnancy test but it said know.

  4. kathleen says:

    I think you should talk to your mom, she loves you and will want to be there for you. Don’t worry honey everything will be ok, email me if you need some advice.

    Love,
    Kathleen

  5. haley says:

    do not worry about it.. i think am pregant to and am scared out my mind. so now there 2 OF US.. EMAIL WHERE WE CAN TALK

  6. jessica lively says:

    my boyfriend and i we have sex times nine times i maybe be pregnant i am 3 weeks pregnant i am 19 year old and my boyfriend is 18 year old and i take a pregnancy test i pee a pregnant test

  7. Bobbi-Jo says:

    WTH are you doing having sex at that age. God, keep your legs closed.

  8. Precious Currie says:

    I think that there is a big possibility… As long as you have sex, either protected or not, you could be. Expecially if ur having all those symptoms

  9. Raybaby says:

    Girl i feel u cuz i feel i mite b prego 2 nd im 15 nd me nd my boyfriend neva use protection

  10. joe king says:

    heyyy my gf is pregnant and shes only 9 years old so dont feel bad i mean it culd be alot worse like you could be 8 or sumthin i mean if you weigh over 75 pounds u can give birth so wtf:)

  11. Jaaaasmine(a) says:

    im 12′ im kindaa scared as well:/
    ive got all the symptoms and shizzz.

  12. shianne says:

    gurl im 16 and pregnet wid my 2 child so i fell ya just talk to ur mom ok

  13. ashley says:

    Well i think that if you are this scared of being pregnant then maybe you should refrain from having sex. Getting pregnant is always a possibility and if you aren’t ready for that responsibility, then you’re not ready for sex. You have too many other things that you should work on, like school, besides going through this kind of mess. Take a test, if it is positive, be open with your mother, if it is negative, don’t have any more sex until you are old enough to know the consequences.

  14. kaylen says:

    im 12 nd i juss had sex with my bf im scared if i might be pregnant because my period hasnt came yet HELP !!! wat do i do ??!!

  15. gigi says:

    wow when i was 12 i didnt even know anything about sex i hope u keeped the baby if u did get prego

  16. Akia says:

    …wow

  17. ella says:

    hey is it possible i could be pregnant if im a VIRGIN????????? i have every symptom there can be and i am gaining wight rapidly i am so scared and dont no how to get a pregnancy test without my mom knowing please help me by comments or you can email me i am so scared!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :’(

  18. saffron says:

    wth….kids having kids…what is this world coming to! for one you are only 12! if you cant be responsible to have protected sex u crnt b responsible to have a baby,theyr not jus 4 christmas there 4 life..and there hard work and expensive.
    your way too young to be even having sex!
    a baby should be braught into a stable relationship were you know you and your partner are stable in relationship and money wise.

  19. Brit says:

    WOW. I am disgusted after reading some of these posts. At 12 years old I was still playing with barbie dolls!! 12 year olds should NOT be having sex. Your body is not mature enough, nor mature enough to carry a baby. I mean seriously, this is really messed up. I had my daughter at 18 years old so I can’t sit here and condemn these young girls, but there is a difference between a 12 year old having sex and a 17/18 year old having sex. Let me tell you girls, it’s HARD having a baby at a young age. I am happy that you guys would keep it because that’s taking responsibility but really, you need to refrain from sex if you’re still just a child. Yes babies are cute, but I’ll tell you what’s not cute…Getting up every few hours, constantly trying to soothe the crying baby, changing diapers, walking around for 6 weeks with a stitched up vagina, not being able to go out anymore, losing friends, giving up your teenage years! Because now you are responsible for another human being. Which means you can’t be selfish. This is a life time thing, there is no going back. That child is with you for 18 years! Now I don’t regret having my daughter because she is my world, but having her I grew up fast! It’s tough work and I can’t emphasize that enough! If you girls are curious about sex, ask your parents because it’s not all it’s cracked up to be! Especially seeing the first few times it is painful. It is def worth waiting for! Girls should be taught to save themselves, because it makes you pure and nobody can take that from you!
    I wish all you girls luck <3

  20. Nadia says:

    Dear young ladies,
    I am 25 years old and never been pregnant. I just want to let you girls know that there are more important things out there then having sex. Sex should be the least of your worries. Not only can you can get pregnant but you can also get a disease. I have friends that are 30 years old and older and it is still hard for them to take care of a child. There are things to look forward to in your life but if you get pregnant at an early age then you will never get to experience the great things in life, but if you are having sex never be scared to talk to your parents that way they can get you on some type of birth control and save your life by getting you tested. You don’t want to ruin your life forever for something that only last for minutes

  21. lulu says:

    im 9 and i had sex with my boyfriend iv started my period im gainig wait .i ned advice 2

    • Hannah says:

      Lulu,

      How long have you been having your period? Is it regular, taking place each month? When was your last period and when did you have sex?

      Hannah

  22. Babe says:

    I’m 11 and my friend and I were doing dares and I got to this website, but I can’t beleive that you are 12 and possibly pregnant! I don’t plan on gettiing pregnant until I am ready for it! However, talk to your mum just ask her to buy you pregancy test! Go to a store and look for one that is cheap but good value!

  23. Babe says:

    Gosh keep ya legs shut!!!!

  24. Nique says:

    Yall lil hoes is wild…..grab a book. Sex can wait

  25. lea says:

    hi. im 12 years old and im scared i mite hav a chance to b prego. i havent been on my period for almost about a year(im gessn its not regular) but me and dis guy had a sexual intercourse . his cock was not inside me wen he cummd but we wer both naked is der a chance i cud b prego,, *dis happened yestday so ther is no proof yet

  26. Maria says:

    Hi, im 18 years old and my bf is 20 we’ve been having unprotected sex for almost 2years we use the pull out technique bt now im worryed because im 6days late on my period and my cycle is a 29days cycle I also think I concieved on july10 but am not sure I have not taken any HPT because I dont belive I am. Can someone help me.

  27. Michelle says:

    Damn if you is you brought this on yourself. I feel swrry for you bt damn your only 12. I didn’t have sex til I was 14 now I’m 15. I only had sex cuz I was readyy ndd I’m still only havinqq sex wit one person since were still together. I trusted him ndd he wants a kid, but yet your prego how ironic lol..bt if you is take a test that’s all I could say..