I’m 12 and a Virgin but Have Pregnancy Symptoms

Kailey writes, “im super scared too! i think i may be pregnant and i am only 12!! me and my boyfriend have never had sex i am a virgin but i have every single symptom there can be!! we are both really scared and i cant tell my parents. theyd freak! we are gonna try to get me a test without my parents knowing but they are so expensive! i dont want an abortion and dont really like adoption and im freaked! if anyone can help PLEASE do!!”

Dear Kailey,

If you’ve never had sex (i.e. your boyfriend never put his penis in your vagina irregardless of whether he ejaculated sperm or not), then you shouldn’t have anything to worry about. Could you clarify what your symptoms are? Just respond by answering in the comments section below.

Cheer up!


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  1. Dark shadow says:

    I am 13 years old and I have white discharge and I have all the symptoms of pregnancy but I never had a boyfriend and never do sex like intercrouse plzz tell me I am really worried can I get pregnant I have white discharge after my period I have spotting I don’t know why I am really worried

    • It’s called discharge. It’s kind of like a period. But not. Just another way your body cleans itself. Absolutely nothing to worry about. If too much gets in your underwear, just get panty liner or a light pad:)

    • If you never had sex in your life but your always touching yourself can you accidentally get pregnant from your self or if your always wet everynight

  2. I am 12 I have some of the simptoms of being pregnant never had sex or have a boyfriend

  3. I’m 14 and I’ve never had sex. I am having some symptoms of pregnancy and I’m scared!!!

  4. I’m 13 and I’ve never had sex or been really near sperm but according to the app I’m using, I’m 14 days late and I’m really scared and don’t know what to do

  5. Im 10. Got the white vein known as ” vircose ” or something like that you only get when pregnant. Two of them, actually. Lots of cramps and white/ brown discharge. Period skipped a few days. Wtf? Not only am i lesbian but i have never even seen a real penis! Honestly, this is the second time i googled symptoms and both had results revolving around pregnancy. Im going through a really hard time lately and if i am pregnant – my worst fear – it will push me over the edge! H E L P!!!

  6. Kelsey Duttenhofer says:

    You cannot get pregnant if you don’t have sex. You’re a virgin, you’re probably about to start your period. Buy pantyliners.

  7. I’m 13 and I’m a virgin and my last period was lighter then usual and I just started my period this year.And this month it’s also lighter then usual.Sinceike a week before and now I’ve been feeling kinda nauseous some times and I have a sore throats and I think I’m showing all the signs.But a couple a weeks ago I stayed at a friends house so idk what could have happened but I’m pretty sure I would’ve woke up and know

  8. I’m 14 and I’m a virgin but my stomach keeps growing and I have all the symptoms of being pregnant but I don’t want a baby at this age I’m really worried what should I do

    • Catura, You’re not pregnant. Your body is just growing, and your stomach is getting bigger because as you get older, your body produces fat. It’s common. I had the same issue. It’s not bad, it’s called puberty.

      • Thank you so much! Ive had the same problem, Tummy getting bigger and a bit stiff too, Im 13 and ive been so paranoid and worried, And im a virgin too, My breast have purple/red stretch marks along with my upper thighs, Ive been so scared, But now i know i was being stupid and growing up.

      • Madison says:

        Please help me I am 11 and I have pregnancy symptoms and I’m really scared I have never had sex I only masturbate myself that’s it can help me I am scared I can’t tell my mum I’m scared plz HELP IM SCARED!!!

  9. Listen lately I’ve been feeling weird and a little ball in my stomach and possibly a little heartbeat PLEASE TELL ME I’M NOT PREGNANT I’m only 12 and I need help I don’t even have a boyfriend I’m a virgin! Please tell me

    • if u are pregnant u need to tell ur mom asap she will be upset but she’ll come around parents just want to help their kids.

  10. Please! I’m freaking 12 I can’t tell my mom!

  11. I’m twelve years old having almost all the symptoms of pregnancy. Have never had a sexual intercourse my period never came the month I started having pregnancy symptoms. Which if I’m counting right was over 5 1\2 months ago. I haven’t told my mom I’m really worried and scared. HELP PLEASE!?

    • Your period doesn’t regulate for like 7years I read in a arrival that of your under 16 don’t worry if you period is irregular

  12. What should I do

  13. Gabriella Gonzalez says:

    I feel the same way I’m only 14 , I haven’t had a bf , I’m a virgin but I kinda felt weird like pregnancy because my stomach has been growling or have to much water in my stomach 😐 I haven’t had sex before btw I’m worried HELPP.

  14. I’m 14 years old and my stomach is kinda big like the first month of pregnancy I missed my period but if never even had a boyfriend or had sex. I don’t wanna have a baby at such a young age. Can someone please help me?

  15. I’m 14 years old I have all the pregnancy symptoms and I have a lot of discharge and my stomach is getting bigger and my breasts hurt. I don’t want a child at 14 I’m still a virgin but I please myself sometimes can you help me please

  16. I’m not pregnant I can’t be I mean this is just one period right I’ve been late a couple of times I’ve missed one and I’ve had my period for like exactly a year now I’ve never had sexbut I’m late and I told my mom and I also told her that my boobs hurt when I even slightly touch them and I’m have omg symptoms liking on my period lik breek outs more sweet digestive changes cramps also can’t forget about lower back pain but my mom doesn’t trust me and I’m just nevouse about what theses sins mean

  17. Wifey Danielle Jimenez says:

    I am still Virgin I’m 20 years old and lesbian but never had penis in me so why do I feel something moving in my stomach and have to throw up no headaches

  18. Okay I’m 15 years old. My ovaries are covered in cysts. My doctors told me that because there are so many I won’t be able to have kids. Me and my boyfriend had sex a couple weeks ago (we used a condom to be safe) but I’m throwing up and my boobs are getting bigger. I think I’m pregnant but my period isn’t due until the 20th. I don’t want an abortion but I don’t want to give my baby away if I am pregnant. And if I tell my family, there would be no me or no baby.

  19. Jasmine Jara says:

    I’m 13 kind…of like experienced pregnancy symptoms NEVER had sex and also I missed my period 1 month and then 2 month I got a pink and red with brown blood kind of like period but 10 days after I had no period.Before i had weird watery discharges like white,watery,stretchy discharges (ovulation idk idk)HELP

  20. Hi, im 14 and currently in this situation. Ive had stomach aches, nausea, vomitting, breast tenderness and insomnia. Ive been losing appetite and sometimes my stomach aches when i drink water. Just recentlt i found milky breast discharge and i was so scared. I am a virgin and have never ever experienced sexual activity. What should i do?

  21. pls pls help me i am 12 years old and i have all of the pregnancy symptoms and i made 5 homemade pregnancy tests and they were both POSITIVE!!!!!!!!!! but i am still a virgin pls help me

  22. P.S i also can’t go to the dollar store to buy a pregnancy test without my mom knowing she already knows something is up

  23. update: ok so i went to the dollar store and bought a home pregnancy test and there was a FAINT PINK LINE!!!!! HELP ME i am not ready to have a baby i’m not even A TEENAGER YET!!!! im only 12 pls pls pls help me!!!!!!!!!!!

  24. Hey I am 13 and I used my moms viberator idk if there was sperm on it…but I didn’t stick it up me. I just rubbed it on me. And I haven’t got my period yet and I have lots of symptoms. Pls help!!

  25. I'mshysorry says:

    me too I’m 13 turni g 14 i don’t have a boyfriend and I never had sex but I’m vomiting I also feel a sort of discomfort at my upper abdomen I can also feel that my breast are sometimes tender and my period hasn’t come yet what should I do? I am really worried and I am scared please help me .am I pregnant???

  26. I'mshysorry says:

    me too I’m 13 turni g 14 i don’t have a boyfriend and I never had sex but I’m vomiting I also feel a sort of discomfort at my upper abdomen I can also feel that my breast are sometimes tender and my period hasn’t come yet what should I do? I am really worried and I am scared please help me .am I pregnant??? pleaseeee replyyyyyyyyyyyy

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