Kailey writes, “im super scared too! i think i may be pregnant and i am only 12!! me and my boyfriend have never had sex i am a virgin but i have every single symptom there can be!! we are both really scared and i cant tell my parents. theyd freak! we are gonna try to get me a test without my parents knowing but they are so expensive! i dont want an abortion and dont really like adoption and im freaked! if anyone can help PLEASE do!!”
Dear Kailey,
If you’ve never had sex (i.e. your boyfriend never put his penis in your vagina irregardless of whether he ejaculated sperm or not), then you shouldn’t have anything to worry about. Could you clarify what your symptoms are? Just respond by answering in the comments section below.
Cheer up!
Hannah
i have the same issue as kailey! virgin but pregnant or at least have every single symptom… im getting a test tomarro without telling my parents. all my friends are helping me and my boyfriend is going with me tomarro because he thinks i may be prego too. i will say what happened tomarro so maybe it will help kailey! is it possible that i missed my period because of stress and then my body tricked itself into thinking it was pregnant but i really wasnt?? please help me!!!!
If you’ve never had sex, then it would be extremely difficult to get pregnant. It’s not uncommon to miss your period – yes, stress or a major change in what you eat or a new diet or even some kinds of medication can cause your period to be irregular. Since you are young, it might even be your age which can be a factor in having you skip your period. If the pregnancy test comes back positive, please let us know. In that case, something must have happened somewhere – i.e. somehow some sperm entered your vagina and fertilized an egg that was waiting. Occasionally, there are cases when a person is sleeping and another person has non consensual sex (i.e. sex without their permission) with them, yet they never wake up. Think it odd, but it has happened before. Then there are the cases when some teens are “messing around” but don’t think they’ve gone “all the way” yet some semen did enter the girl’s vagina and the egg was fertilized. A guy can insert his penis into your vagina, never ejaculate, yet still leave a little sperm behind. Just some things to chew over. Hope this helps!
i’m 13&pregnant.. i haven’y told anyone but the father,who is 17.please help :(
I’m afraid that might be true with me to..same thing he’s 17 and I hav pregnancy symptoms but don’t wanna worry anyone..
Hi I’m 12 and I’m pregnant with a 16 yr.old my parents don’t know. I’m to scared to tell them. I’m definitely preg because he went to the store and got me some test and they turned out positive. I took like 5 test.
Hi. Im sorry you are so going this at a very going age and dealing with a very grown up issue. Have you thought about your choices? Ian letting you know that if you choose adoption, my husband and u would be very happy to adopt him/her!
You can contact me if you would like to talk more. I wish you the best of luck on what ever road you choose!!
Im 12 Already had my baby my mom beat my azz wen she found out but the dad waz 13 an go to his house every now an then to let him see his baby i had a gurl named shannel born augest 11 2011
Hannah,
Please help! im 12 and i have some pregnancy symptoms. my period ended about june 18th ish. I was with mt bf and we were on this funny chat website….(sex chat) and we were watching these random ppl doin funny stuff.Wewerefoolin around and i had my bathingsuit on. Heejaculatedandhadpre-cumed….. im.not.sure.if.he. had.it.on.his.finger.but. he.was.sorta.fingering. me.he.didnt.in.my.vag. but.im.afraid.pre-cum.got.in.somehow… .i.dont.think.i.ovulated. yet. but.im.still.scared.cuz.i. have.some.symptoms.and.im.afrain. to.buy.a.test….cuz.im.only.12……. .my. symptoms.are. frequentpeein,…bloating…… kind.of.nauseaus,but.not. really,,,,,,,,and…also….im…. having…. constipation….. and…..diahriha……… my.pe riod.shudnt.b. bak.til.the.14th.or. 15th….so.i.have,a, while.to.wait….. sorry.my.space.bar.broke!!!!!!!!!……. PLEASE… PLEASE….HELP!!!
dear, katie
please stay calm my advise would be to tell your parents i know this might sound like the dumbs thing to do but your parents love you more than anyone in this world. it wont be easy but i have 2 little girls and if this happened to them i would like for them to know that they can count on me for anything no matter what it is…I wish you the best please keep me updated on what happens take care….(-:
Well What In The WorldAre You Doing you Need To Take A few steps down you 12 nd 13 and you should be ashamed and i love you but i hope you learn from your mastakes
aug 20,2020 miss my period!! me and dis boy never had sex we met and all nun likke dat i mean how could dat happen without sex am i realli
i mean 2012
I THOUGHT I WA S PREGNANT BECAUSE THERE IS A LITTLE BUMP UNDER MY BELLY BUTTON BUT IM A VIRGIN! HOW COULD THIS BE!?? PLEASE REPLY!! DESPERATE!
i thought i was pregoo !
Cuz me nd ma bf had sex 2 daysz after my period ended
Nd it was about amonth ago && i got my period this month ?
Butti have symptoms of pregoo !
Could i still be pregooo if i got my period?
PLEASE HELP MEE ! : (
Ashlyn, same for me, well almost. I haven’t found out if I’m pregnant yet because I had sex about 3 weeks ago. I think I’m not pregnant, but I never know. I just hope I am not pregnant.
I’m 13 and I’m still a virgin but I’ve missed my period, have too go to the loo a lot and I have a wierd feeling in my lower abdomen, Im also tired all the time but I have been feeling very depressed and couldn’t stop crying last night, could this just be stress?
I just missed my perio too ! and m stomic looks bigger to me ! Im scare and confused D; I gained a couple pounds and ive been sper depressed ! ;o i dnt know how bt i think im pregnate too ! how are you doing ? -lala
Man this is nuts. All these pregnant 12 year old virgins… lol. However… I do have a close friend who fell pregnant after her partner got semen on his hand and put his hand inside her. Re all these symptoms I must say this: hormones can be very nasty. Esspecially around puberty. I am too old for puberty however I have been diagnosed with ovarian cancer which plays a huge role in my hormonal balance. As my partner and I are trying to have a baby before the docs remove my uterus I am always looking for pregnancy symptoms and I always– ALWAYS have at least half of them because my hormones are unbalanced. Just like in puberty. So if its possible take a test or talk to your parents but if its not you can count it as your misbehaving hormones…
“Man this is nuts. All these pregnant 12 year old virgins… lol.”
LOLOLOL THANK YOU!!!! What the hell, hahahah.
Please help!
I’m only 12 and I knew this 13 yr old guy for a while. I started to like him more than a friend, so I took flirting advice from yahoo answers, and it was to comment on his belt, sit on his knee and ‘accidentally’ touch down below. I did it when I was at his house and his parents were out, he seemed to like it and after a while we were going out. He started to kiss me with tongues, and we carried on for a while until it started to get really heavy. I asked him to stop, and when he did we both went outside to his jaquizzi for an hour. We started kissing again and before I knew what was happening, he had me pressed against the wall and was masturbating on me. I masturbated on him too, and I think he jacked off. Please help because we didn’t actually have SEX so his penis didn’t go into my vagina or anything, so how come I have all the pregnancy symptoms? I’m really worried so please give me some advice on what to do
thank you xx
maybe its yurr contious i hav had these illusions about seein different things goin on in my body appearance but then i get my period so then im like whewww but see ive nvrr dun tht b4 im 14 goin on 15 in september n i think itd best for u to hav waited untill marriage or old enough to hav sex so u wouldnt hav to worry about bein pregnat !! doin it undr age is makin things harder for yurrself! n juzz lettin yall know most grls miss there period the month they strtd bc yurr bodyy is not use to it. i hope sum of this helpss n till then keep yur legs clossed thank u!:) or email mee im here for u!!
Hey every body,8m qw yrs old and my mom went 2 c my aunt and she said she`d give me 20 dollars 2 clean her room. I was putting her clothes up wen i saw a toy penis in there 0_0, I thought it was gross b4 but i started examining it.and i had just come from the bathroom so my hands were wet and i notIced tht it had a nob tht made it vibRate and it fell on my laP and i liked how it felt….so after a feww mins i got like this BIG rush..it felt awesome so i put it back..then later i started 2 think about it..could i b pregnant by tht thing bcuz my mom does have a bf from long distance and wen he comes 2 town she always has her robe on….help me ive never told her i was addicted 2 sex since i was molested at 5 and i dont wanna come clean 2 her. Ive NEVR had sex with any human or animal b4 . Its always a object..i feel shameful plz help by comments or email
Im 12 yrs old..srry bout tht
hi im 18 i recently just broke up with my boyfreind i had my period round the 5th of feb and was due round 5th march now me and my bf had unprotected sex 4 times at this point i have been puting on wait and i had not had my period and its now 1st april help me please xx:/
Hi, I am 14 and a virgin, but I have a few symptoms of pregnancy. They are: nausea, stomach tension, and a weird bloated feeling in my stomach. I think it might just be stress, but I’m very worried so please help me!!
Hi, I am 14 and a virgin, but I have a few symptoms of pregnancy. They are: nausea, stomach tension, and a weird bloated feeling in my stomach. I think it might just be stress, but I’m very worried so please help me!!I have never even had a boyfriend either!
Hi i am only 13 and a virgin but i think im pregnant because i have all the symptoms and i mean all! i cant tell my mom or dad cause they would freak! and i cant get a pregnancy test cause thay are sooooo much money a i am broke!!!!!! please help me i am so scared right now!
First of all, calm down. Are you sure you’ve never had sex before? As in, dude putting his penis into your vagina? What about a boyfriend? If you had a boyfriend and he was fingering you, he could have had semen on his hands from masturbation. If you have never had intercourse before, there is absolutely nothing to worry about. Since you seem to have all the symptoms, you’re probably experiencing hysterical pregnancy. This is when a girl believes she is pregnant to the point of developing symptoms.
Hope this helped! :)
iam also 12 wit all the syptoms, but still a virgine, never been fingered by someone else, but i have had all the symptoms and you say, thinking your pregnant so much that you get the symptoms.. is feeling kicking a symptom? i dont know if it like my belly rumbling of anything, but i have ad chest problems so im going for this weird x-ray thing that does your whole body, and i dont think im pregnant as im virgin, but what if they see a baby! i am virgin, with syptoms as needed to wee a lot, belly feels funny, belly looks bigger?(could be imagionation) missed my period for like 3 months now!! MAJOR WORRIED
I don’t think they’ll find a baby inside you, but there may be something else which would be a medical concern. Please keep us posted!
Hi
i just turned 13 years old, A complete VIRGIN no boy has never even touched me, but i have masturbated ALOT in my life and all the time i thought i was prego i always got my period so that helped the cause, but this time its different i actually see the symptoms i haft to pee alot and its clear, my boobs hurt alittle, my stomach hurts, it feels kinda hard i dont ever feel nausous, IM SOOOOO SCARED
but i did situps like 5 days ago and i guess my muscles are sore i wanna accept any other conclusion other than prego but i need to be SURE im so SCARED BUT IVE NEVER HAD SEX NOT EVEN A BOYFRIEND I WANNA JUST RUNAWAY SOMETIMES TO SAVE THE TROUBLE CAUSE IM SO WORRIED HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Not to worry, Britney. You’re 99.99% not pregnant (the 0.01% covers me!). Masturbating all day long won’t make you pregnant. As far as what you are feeling, it could be a variety of things: nerves, something you’re coming down with, etc. You can stop worrying and sleep well tonight!
Best luck,
Hannah
i haveing the same problum </3 ;/
there is very little chance of getting prego if you are a virgin. once sperm hit air, they die!! so if he came on you, then there is a very slim chance of actually being pregnant. and if you keep telling yourself you think you’re pregnant then your body could actually believe it, but you really aren’t. this could account for the pregnancy symptoms, and if you really believe you are, get a pregnancy test.
That’s not true. Believe it or not, sperm can last for several days without dying in a warm-temperatured area. So what could happen is that a woman could touch an area with semen and sperm and then get pregnant from that. It only takes one sperm to fertilize an egg!
It’s actually a lot more complicated than that, Willow. Sperm need a special environment to survive for several days. They are living things, keep in mind. That special environment is found within a girl’s reproductive tract where they can live for up to 5 days (or, given the right conditions, possibly even longer). However, sperm which is outside the human body, in most normal conditions, will only last a couple minutes to a couple hours at most.
Nomi,
Sperm do NOT die when they ‘hit air’. Please be careful or you could end up pregnant, too.
I am 16. I have never had a single missed, late, or abnormal period before ever, and i got my first one almost exactly 4 years ago. I have never even had pms symptoms other than maybe getting hornier sometimes (never felt like tracking when i get horny tho)
I have only had one bf, been with him 2 years. we live thousands of miles apart, never even met in rl. i have never had sex. I never felt anyone else’s privates areas before (mine was only touched once when i was 8, and that was not even consensual.
I never have done any drugs, I like never leave my house, I never do anything that is even remotely risky at all.
My period was due on april 4th. I thought that it was odd that i missed it, but but figured maybe it was my age or something. then a few days ago my tummy started feeling weird, almost sickish. i never threw up, or anything tho. I figured it was cause ppl in this house are being sick right now but they all have been throwing up (and I’m not that strong stomached either). then yesterday i started getting really strong cravings. (schlotsky’s, ham, bread, specific icecream, pickles, yogurt, watermelon, baked chicken, etc) while some things that I always really love make me feel sick to think about (cookies, fried chicken, bacon, etc), i’m getting more tired but other than stomach sick and being a bit tired is all of the sickness thats going on that I have. but my stomach is feeling more bloated i think. Idk if i gained any weight, and even if i weighed myself i wouldn’t know since i don’t stand on a scale unless its for a doctor and its been almost a year.
I have been really really cranky lately, and a bit more bipolar than normal.
Its just like when my mom was pregnant (I was 8+ for 3 of them so i know how it was like for her) only I am a 100% virgin, and never kissed a guy before, but I feel really really pregnant. its really confusing me, alot.
Also add, that today is April 26 (22 days late so far, so i count it as skipped)
am 18 and i have missed taking one of my pills but i have finished the pack of pills, and took the pill that i missed on thrusday and i still havent taken my period i had sex with my boyfriend but he wasnt wearing a condom and i dint tell him to put on one, i dont want to be pregnant and am scared incase he let sperm inside me but i asked him and he said he didnt i trust him on what he says. Am i pregnant or not thats what am worried about. could you tell me please….
I am 14 I am an athlete so I’ve always had an irregular period. I just stopped getting for the most part but like 2 months in a row my period was just the smallest .. And I mean smallest amount of bleeding and it was mostly just brown!!!!!…….. I feel like my stomachhas taken a wierd shape ….. I get nauseous to some things …. Mostly sugar(which is wierd). I Am a virgin !!! As far as I know … Please help!!!!!
me too! i’m 14 also, but my period hasn’t been on for 4 months and i don’t know what to do. i can’t tell my mom because she’ll just assume i had sex. i have pregnancy symptoms, but i know there is no possible way for me to be pregnant because i am a virgin. please someone help
at your age it’s completely normal to have irregular periods. I went months without them when I was your age, don’t panic :) And as for the “odd shape” – you’re probably just bloated.
i am only 12 and i was cloce to having sex with my bf but i told him no becuse we wernt protected but he touched my boob and made me all uncompfy but at the same time it felt reslly good. What should i tell him!? i reaaly cant get preg at age 12 but i dont wanna tell him no
Im only 12 im dating a 15 year old guy we love eachother alot and he keeps trying to get me to have sex with him but I don’t know if im ready to…..he said he would use protection we’ve gotten close but not to close and I don’t want to get any closer than what we have already gotten!! oh and he already has one baby….should I stay with him or dump him..or do I just tell him no?!?! I really need help and I can’t ask anyone else please help me!!(:
Carlie,
I’m going to be blunt and you (and others) may not like me for that, but here goes: He’s probably just after you for sex. Never let a guy do that to you. Guys can be so obsessed in wanting sex without really, truly loving the girl (whose body they are so passionate about – though they’ll gladly dump you if a prettier girl comes flirting around). If he really loves you, ask him to wait. Then you’ll find out if he really loves you or just lusts you.
Best luck,
Hannah
Should I dump him?! I thought he really loved me but im not sure now…and he keeps wanting me to sleep with him in his house when no one else is home know im beginning to think all he wants is sex idk what to do
Yep, to put it bluntly. A lot of guys just want sex, and when you’re “used up,” they’ll just discard you and move onto the next “fresh” girl until they tire of her. If he really loved you, then he would do what is best for you, and this sounds like a one way highway for him. I know it might hurt breaking up, and if he’s a sex addict, he might beg and plead, but don’t let him ruin your life like this. Find a real guy who wants to be friends and who loved you for more than what you can do in bed.
I guess what ur saying is that I need to break up with him if I want what’s best for me? I thought he really loved me but im beginning to believe he’s like the rest of the teenage guys…he got one girl pregnant and I don’t want that to happen to me!
I think that would be the safest thing for you to do, carlie! Please be careful!!
I think you just answered your own question… he’s clearly an idiot.
ur 12 years old u dont even know what love is
Hello everybody. I am 16 years old and I am kinda scared that I may be pregnant. This is not another “I’ve never even been touched” thing, so please help me. My boyfriend and I have been going out for two years, and plan on moving in together at 18. We mess around a lot, but he’s never actually penetrated. I am afraid because he has slid his penis across my vulva then fingered me directl after, as well as cleaned off his ejaculate then fingered me. Lots of things like that. I have been fatigued, have very sore nipples and tender breasts, I’m moody, peeing a lot, hungry all the time for strange things, and I have gone up a couple pant sizes, I have very frequent back and headaches. Does this sound plausible enough to talk with my mother about a test? Or should I drop it? Feedback is very welcomed. :)
Thank you. -Cynthia.
Dear Cynthia,
Just a handful of questions first to help me better understand your situation: do you remember when your last period was? when did he finger you with sperm on his fingers? have you definitely missed a period yet?
Hannah
Hannah, I agree with everything you have said on this site, you are like the master of knowing what is good and bad or wrong and right for a women, many people would be very lost, depressed and scared without your amazing help!
I am sure all the girls on this site a with me and would like to say the same thing I am about to say…
THANKYOU so much, we would all be lost without you!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
Thanks, Anonymous! I’m far from perfect, and I’m only able to help a fraction of the questions people send me, but I do my best!
I AGREE
Alright first to clear the air. If you are a virgin, then there is no possible way you are pregnant. No one is asexual. You most likely missed your period, over thought about it and had a hyper pregnancy where you experienced pregnancy symptoms but was not really pregnant. Two, I somewhat understand the 15 and up girls, because I am 15 and have gotten very close to having sex. But 12 years old? My younger sister is 12. You are all trying to grow up too fast. Just breathe. But I do have a question: I recently turned fifteen but I haven’t had my period. Ever. Many people think I’m anorexic, however I KNOW I’m not. Could there be something wrong with me? I am very low percentage body-fat, mainly muscle. But it still freaks me out. Please help!
Katy,
Hmmm … How tall are you and how much do you weigh? How developed are your breasts? Are you a really picky eater? What’s your normal daily diet like? Do you exercise intensely every day? What kinds of sports or exercise do you do? Do you do any horseback riding?
Thanks!
Hannah
no every one gets their period at a different pace i didnt start my period til i was 16
I’m exactly the same, it’s how I got to this page, I’m 12 -and have every pregnancy symptom possible, But a virgin, I’m getting a test this weekend when I goto an older friends house, so my parents hopefully won’t find out, good luck, we both need it!