Kailey writes, “im super scared too! i think i may be pregnant and i am only 12!! me and my boyfriend have never had sex i am a virgin but i have every single symptom there can be!! we are both really scared and i cant tell my parents. theyd freak! we are gonna try to get me a test without my parents knowing but they are so expensive! i dont want an abortion and dont really like adoption and im freaked! if anyone can help PLEASE do!!”
Dear Kailey,
If you’ve never had sex (i.e. your boyfriend never put his penis in your vagina irregardless of whether he ejaculated sperm or not), then you shouldn’t have anything to worry about. Could you clarify what your symptoms are? Just respond by answering in the comments section below.
Cheer up!
Hannah
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God you kids are stupid if you think you can get pregnantt without having sex… you all are just looking for attention in a wrong way. im 16. i have a 4 month old son. with a 20 yr old. i love them to death. but wanting to get attention from acting pregnant is stupid. and wanting to have a baby to keep a guy is even worse. Morons.
For one, you have no right to talk to a twelve year old, considering your only 16 yourself, you also made a mistake, also, how would you know if she is faking or not, can you read hher mind, obviously not. If she is telling the truth she is telling the truth, if that was you and someone said something like “Morons, and stupid kids” this that, you would be hurt, so take your words and be careful next time before you speak, MORON!!! Dont like it do you?
Completely agree with Chyna. The only moron is Brittany with her 16 year old self not even legally an adult talking as if she were one. Get that out of here. I feel like this 12 year old is at least mature and brave enough to explain her symptoms. But its MORONS like the 16 year old that make it hard for anyone to get any opinions or help from anyone. Shut up. And poor 12 year old honey if you have not had sex than you have nothing to worry about. Period. (No pun intended) Lol.
She was stating her opinion, just like u said other people were trying to do. I’m just saying, I know I’ve been a bitch on this sight, but I’m a 12 year old girl and these girls need to read up a little on sex before they actually do come pregnant. Oh jeeezzz why r people do stupid…The girls I mean not u.
look buddy i am not a moron kay in my culture it is bad to have sex and women have over 6 kids kay
and i also learned U CAN NOT get pregnant unless u have sperm go inside of u or u do some type of sexual intercoarse so u girls shud not have a problem…. and i started my period bak up and its something to do with water and once u have ur period those sidafects should go away but u will have cramping like hell
Wait it was something to do with water for you? What was it?
are you actually being serious?? who are you the virgin mary? im 14 weeks pregnant with my 1st and im pretty sure you need to have sex i didnt just wake up pregnant one day. i think your just attention seeking and should find something else to concentrate on. to be honest i think its pathetic that the thought of pregnancy even crossed your mind… i know i might be coming across abit rude but c’mon really?!?!
haha no doubt eh… lmao. wow. 12 , neveer had sex. but shes pregnant…… hahahahaha i like your comment !!!! im 14 weeks today with baby # 2. Congrats
oh and plus, My cousin had gotten pregnaut from a towel, that her OWN brother used to “Jack Off” or you know, and she got pregnaut, and she is still a virgin, I went to the doctor and everything, so she could be telling the truth, and not to put the rude side down, but if you dont know the facts, dont say anything at all, Thanks. “attention Seekers??” please, whatever you say.
Its alright i am 12 too and i totally feel the same way i dont even have a boyfriend. I have been getting fat and trust me i dont eat that much or eat fattening foods and i exercise every day. I feel bloated and only my stomach is getting fat and i have lots of headaches. Not sure if im pregnant (most likely not since ive never been touched or had sex) nit theres evennbeen moving around in me tummy. Any thoights?
GAS HAHA. ORR YOU HAVE A HERNIA… NO BABIES FOR YOU !!
U might get ur period soon.
I think you not pregant baby girl and if you think you are maybe you should talk to doctor kr you mommy. I also think people should mind stop being rude and leaving mean comments. Im 29 with twin girls and i ve been marrjed scine 18. And i learned when you dont have nothing nice to say you dont say it at all. Oh congrats to soon to be mothers. I love my girls melody and harmony!!
im also 12 and have missed my period many times but this time feels wierd because iv been feelin bloated and gettin fatter..i also seem to have a craving ova junk food lately. iv never had a boyfriend
hun, I’m the same age as u. Ok, so like when u first get ur period it may be irregular( like it doesn’t come every month cuz ur bodys still getting use to the changes and stuff)
Well i was fooling around with a guy but he never went inside 3 or 4 days later i got my period and it only lasted for a good amount of 4 days so i’m wondering could i be pregnant?
If u had ur period u can’t be pregnant at all.
im 12 and feel the same way. but im sure im not pregnant cuz ive never had sex. i have all the symptoms but have also NEVER had my period. i think im going to get my first period soon and thats why these are happening to me. and also i keep telling myself i wanna be pregnant,if you do that, you may keep thinking you are. ive also had weird dreams im pregnant. but im sure im not, i dont even have a boyfriend. but when i tell myself im not, i keep thinking about the story of the girl who got pregnant from swimming, but then i tell myself its not true. and the i think about how im such a heavy sleeper and anything could have happened. but im pretty sure im not pregnant.
honey, you CANNOT get pregnant if you’ve never even had your period before and if you’re a virgin! you’re not the virgin mary, sorry. also you can’t get pregnant from swimming in a pool – sperm only survives for a little while after it’s released (that is, if it’s not released in a girl, then it can make it for longer).
Or your simply hitting puberty! You can’t get pregnant unless his penis is near or in your vag! Calm down and you and your boyfriend are dumb ass hell. Welcome to womanhood. You should be getting your period soon :)
I’m 14 an I eat hot sauce an peach an I’m not u just growin up an Im a virgin to I miss my cycle so many times till Idc cuz I havnt done nothin
For one, You all are acting like she is an absolute idiot for asking a question. She is concerned, not mentally handicapped. Secondly, they are 12. They had the primitive sex ed about “one’s body” they have no idea.
Look u can be that darn slow. U have to have sex to get pregant. What do u think you mary? whoever u r please stay in you sex ed class cause honey u need u and your boyfriend.
Im 13 and think I am pregnant as well I have the symptoms but haven’t had sex and i’ve missed my cycle. When I take pregnancy quizzes online they say that I’m 4 week into it. I haven’t told anyone yet.
Seriously? What has this world come to when children, yes all of you 12, 13, 14 and even 16 years old are kids are discussing sex and pregnancy. You are still kids yourselves.. Despite what the media and your peers say, not everyone is doing it, its not cool and so on. You are not mentally, physically or emotionally ready for sex let alone pregnancy and a baby. Its not cool I promise. Yeah they’re cute and stuff. But guess what they aren’t a toy or phone that you can just forget about or turn off. They are a full time job. I’m 20 years old and I don’t want children right now. I myself are not read,y so just enjoy being a kid instead of trying to have one or make one. Believe me, being all grown-up isn’t fun. I wish I still was a kid at times. Also on a side note. All of you who are bad mouthing the 12 years old for being ‘stupid’ they are just misinformed kids, who aren’t being taught right by the schools and even parents. Yeah I’m blaming parents and schools for those kids who don’t understand sex. A note to all parents, ignoring the problem of discussing sex with you kid isn’t going to make it go away or not happen. They will find it out from friends and such and more likely will be misinformed then you’re going to wonder why you daughter is pregnant at 12-16 or worse has a STD. Discuss this kinda things with them and BE HONEST. It actually makes a difference.
daughter is pregnant or son is father*
Okay listen here. If a dick hasn’t went inside you’re vagina then there is no way you could be pregnant. And Chyan sperm dies when it hits air. I’m 14 And I miss some of my periods. You don’t fully cycle till you about 16. Retards!!!!!!
Wow, I was randomly looking through things on google and randomly clicked on this.
I actually have experience in this area I guess?
I got pregnant when I was fourteen and had my son when I was fifteen. I am twenty now.
There are cases where people have gotten pregnant at a young age, it really depends on who. Everyone is different. Some are easy and some aren’t. It could take a fully grown women to get pregnant a very long time.
As far as I know you must have sexual intercourse in order to get pregnant. I have never heard of someone getting pregnant by a towel? (that is just ridiculous). I know when I was younger (and a virgin) I had some kind of symptoms and I thought I might have been pregnant but it was my hormones acting up. Moving around in you’re stomach? Well you could have gas. Simple as that. If it concerns you, you should go to the doctors or get you’re parent’s to sign papers for you’re sex-ed classes.
I don’t judge when it comes to having sex at a young age. Everyone makes mistakes. Remember, when you’re pointing you’re finger at someone you got three pointing back at you.
Good luck, hope things work out for you!
-B
i’m 12 and i havent had my period but i know u cant get pregnant if ur still a virgin
Hey chick don’t worry about the symptoms, you aren’t pregnant, your body is still going through a bunch of changes, I’m 17 and I’m still skipping my period every three months and I’m still a virgin. But I do want a baby, buy most of my boyfriends are buttholes anyways :)
SERIOUSLY u girls are 12 years old and having such discussions!!!!! url ar suposed 2 be playing with dolls lokl dont u guys listen in school wen theres a lession on sex? u can never fall pregnant if u still a vigin nt even 4rm the holy ghost…… Oh an that 16year old thats preg u shuldnt pass judgment bcoz honestly u fuckd up 2 be pregnant @ 16 and still proud of it so dont go around passing bad comments to others wen ur nt perfect thats just straight up FUCKED!!!!!!!!!!!
Make sure no one has abused you in your sleep or has given you drugs etc to use you without you knowing….
Just check with a doctor
I am 12 years old and i really dead honestly think i may be pregnant i have never had sex or oral or anyhting but the last 3 onths i havnt had my period and i am gaining wait and i have weird craving . i dont kno any pregnancy simptoms but your period . i am really scared . please help me .