Kailey writes, “im super scared too! i think i may be pregnant and i am only 12!! me and my boyfriend have never had sex i am a virgin but i have every single symptom there can be!! we are both really scared and i cant tell my parents. theyd freak! we are gonna try to get me a test without my parents knowing but they are so expensive! i dont want an abortion and dont really like adoption and im freaked! if anyone can help PLEASE do!!”
Dear Kailey,
If you’ve never had sex (i.e. your boyfriend never put his penis in your vagina irregardless of whether he ejaculated sperm or not), then you shouldn’t have anything to worry about. Could you clarify what your symptoms are? Just respond by answering in the comments section below.
Cheer up!
Hannah
Join in the conversation and share your thoughts in the comment section below.
Dark shadow says
I am 13 years old and I have white discharge and I have all the symptoms of pregnancy but I never had a boyfriend and never do sex like intercrouse plzz tell me I am really worried can I get pregnant I have white discharge after my period I have spotting I don’t know why I am really worried
Kathryn says
It’s called discharge. It’s kind of like a period. But not. Just another way your body cleans itself. Absolutely nothing to worry about. If too much gets in your underwear, just get panty liner or a light pad:)
Alexx says
If you never had sex in your life but your always touching yourself can you accidentally get pregnant from your self or if your always wet everynight
Liv says
It’s impossible to get pregnant by masterbation and stds
Aria says
u cannot get urself pregnant by masterbating or stds
Maggie says
Even though I’m twelve I look way older so older boys can get weird lol but I have white discharge to is normal there is nothing To worry about if you’ve never had sex you’re not able to get pregnant unless you have an egg implanted in you but unless they happened you’re still a virgin and you’re fine you’re not pregnant and I am hundred percent sure it’s probably just a coincidence that you have all the symptoms of pregnancy
To worry about if you’ve never had sex you’re not able to get pregnant unless you have an egg implanted in you but unless they happened you’re still a virgin and you’re fine you’re not pregnant and I am hundred percent sure it’s probably just a coincidence that you have all the symptoms of pregnancy
Daywow says
I am 12 I have some of the simptoms of being pregnant never had sex or have a boyfriend
Alexx says
Same I have Simpson’s too
Heaven says
I’m 14 and I’ve never had sex. I am having some symptoms of pregnancy and I’m scared!!!
Anon says
I’m 13 and I’ve never had sex or been really near sperm but according to the app I’m using, I’m 14 days late and I’m really scared and don’t know what to do
Hannah says
Im 10. Got the white vein known as ” vircose ” or something like that you only get when pregnant. Two of them, actually. Lots of cramps and white/ brown discharge. Period skipped a few days. Wtf? Not only am i lesbian but i have never even seen a real penis! Honestly, this is the second time i googled symptoms and both had results revolving around pregnancy. Im going through a really hard time lately and if i am pregnant – my worst fear – it will push me over the edge! H E L P!!!
Kelsey Duttenhofer says
You cannot get pregnant if you don’t have sex. You’re a virgin, you’re probably about to start your period. Buy pantyliners.
Alexia says
I’m 13 and I’m a virgin and my last period was lighter then usual and I just started my period this year.And this month it’s also lighter then usual.Sinceike a week before and now I’ve been feeling kinda nauseous some times and I have a sore throats and I think I’m showing all the signs.But a couple a weeks ago I stayed at a friends house so idk what could have happened but I’m pretty sure I would’ve woke up and know
Catura says
I’m 14 and I’m a virgin but my stomach keeps growing and I have all the symptoms of being pregnant but I don’t want a baby at this age I’m really worried what should I do
Riley says
Catura, You’re not pregnant. Your body is just growing, and your stomach is getting bigger because as you get older, your body produces fat. It’s common. I had the same issue. It’s not bad, it’s called puberty.
Kassy says
Thank you so much! Ive had the same problem, Tummy getting bigger and a bit stiff too, Im 13 and ive been so paranoid and worried, And im a virgin too, My breast have purple/red stretch marks along with my upper thighs, Ive been so scared, But now i know i was being stupid and growing up.
Madison says
Please help me I am 11 and I have pregnancy symptoms and I’m really scared I have never had sex I only masturbate myself that’s it can help me I am scared I can’t tell my mum I’m scared plz HELP IM SCARED!!!
SARA says
Listen lately I’ve been feeling weird and a little ball in my stomach and possibly a little heartbeat PLEASE TELL ME I’M NOT PREGNANT I’m only 12 and I need help I don’t even have a boyfriend I’m a virgin! Please tell me
Aria says
if u are pregnant u need to tell ur mom asap she will be upset but she’ll come around parents just want to help their kids.
SARA says
Please! I’m freaking 12 I can’t tell my mom!
Emily says
I’m twelve years old having almost all the symptoms of pregnancy. Have never had a sexual intercourse my period never came the month I started having pregnancy symptoms. Which if I’m counting right was over 5 1\2 months ago. I haven’t told my mom I’m really worried and scared. HELP PLEASE!?
Liv says
Your period doesn’t regulate for like 7years I read in a arrival that of your under 16 don’t worry if you period is irregular
Emily says
What should I do
Gabriella Gonzalez says
I feel the same way I’m only 14 , I haven’t had a bf , I’m a virgin but I kinda felt weird like pregnancy because my stomach has been growling or have to much water in my stomach 😐 I haven’t had sex before btw I’m worried HELPP.
Aria says
just go to the dollar store and just buy a pregnancy test
Aria says
it is just your body growing. no need to have a cow. its called puberty
Kayla says
I’m 14 years old and my stomach is kinda big like the first month of pregnancy I missed my period but if never even had a boyfriend or had sex. I don’t wanna have a baby at such a young age. Can someone please help me?
Megan says
I’m 14 years old I have all the pregnancy symptoms and I have a lot of discharge and my stomach is getting bigger and my breasts hurt. I don’t want a child at 14 I’m still a virgin but I please myself sometimes can you help me please
Liv says
I’m not pregnant I can’t be I mean this is just one period right I’ve been late a couple of times I’ve missed one and I’ve had my period for like exactly a year now I’ve never had sexbut I’m late and I told my mom and I also told her that my boobs hurt when I even slightly touch them and I’m have omg symptoms liking on my period lik breek outs more sweet digestive changes cramps also can’t forget about lower back pain but my mom doesn’t trust me and I’m just nevouse about what theses sins mean
Wifey Danielle Jimenez says
I am still Virgin I’m 20 years old and lesbian but never had penis in me so why do I feel something moving in my stomach and have to throw up no headaches
ur mum says
are u thicc in the brain you need to go to an exorcist ASAP
McKayla says
Okay I’m 15 years old. My ovaries are covered in cysts. My doctors told me that because there are so many I won’t be able to have kids. Me and my boyfriend had sex a couple weeks ago (we used a condom to be safe) but I’m throwing up and my boobs are getting bigger. I think I’m pregnant but my period isn’t due until the 20th. I don’t want an abortion but I don’t want to give my baby away if I am pregnant. And if I tell my family, there would be no me or no baby.
ur mum says
how big are they getting????? I need to know ASAP
Jasmine Jara says
I’m 13 kind…of like experienced pregnancy symptoms NEVER had sex and also I missed my period 1 month and then 2 month I got a pink and red with brown blood kind of like period but 10 days after I had no period.Before i had weird watery discharges like white,watery,stretchy discharges (ovulation idk idk)HELP
lemarie says
We have the same symptoms please tell me if your pregnant because I’m 12 and I’m a virgin but I gain weight and have pregnancy symptoms plus I didn’t get my period this month. Please tell me I’m crying right now because I don’t know how to tell my parents about it. Please😭😭😭
keia says
litteralllyyyyy sameeeeee I missed my period and evry thing im gonna go to my guidance councelor ms chatman I don’t want my mom to be upset and she is super Christian so I may have to ask my guidance councilor for a text I am super glad people on this site can help you with your pregnancy scare im 12 years ol birthday is October 15 2006.
Annie says
Hi, im 14 and currently in this situation. Ive had stomach aches, nausea, vomitting, breast tenderness and insomnia. Ive been losing appetite and sometimes my stomach aches when i drink water. Just recentlt i found milky breast discharge and i was so scared. I am a virgin and have never ever experienced sexual activity. What should i do?
Anna says
I have brown discharge , and I have the symptoms of being pregnant but I have never had sex pls answer I’m actually really scared same
Aria says
pls pls help me i am 12 years old and i have all of the pregnancy symptoms and i made 5 homemade pregnancy tests and they were both POSITIVE!!!!!!!!!! but i am still a virgin pls help me
ur mum says
u made 5!!!! but u said both (meaning 2) were POSITIVE???!!!?! nice try baboon this site is for REAL problems ONLY don’t show ur face round here
Aria says
P.S i also can’t go to the dollar store to buy a pregnancy test without my mom knowing she already knows something is up
Aria says
update: ok so i went to the dollar store and bought a home pregnancy test and there was a FAINT PINK LINE!!!!! HELP ME i am not ready to have a baby i’m not even A TEENAGER YET!!!! im only 12 pls pls pls help me!!!!!!!!!!!
ur mum says
serves u rite lololololollololol
Taylor says
Hey I am 13 and I used my moms viberator idk if there was sperm on it…but I didn’t stick it up me. I just rubbed it on me. And I haven’t got my period yet and I have lots of symptoms. Pls help!!
ur mum says
im no doctor but I believe ur def preg gurl
ur mum says
im no doctor but I believe ur def preg gurl lololollololololol
I'mshysorry says
me too I’m 13 turni g 14 i don’t have a boyfriend and I never had sex but I’m vomiting I also feel a sort of discomfort at my upper abdomen I can also feel that my breast are sometimes tender and my period hasn’t come yet what should I do? I am really worried and I am scared please help me .am I pregnant???
I'mshysorry says
me too I’m 13 turni g 14 i don’t have a boyfriend and I never had sex but I’m vomiting I also feel a sort of discomfort at my upper abdomen I can also feel that my breast are sometimes tender and my period hasn’t come yet what should I do? I am really worried and I am scared please help me .am I pregnant??? pleaseeee replyyyyyyyyyyyy
Lashawn says
I’m 13 and never had sex but the other day I saw something moving in my stomach what does that mean
Kay👑💕 says
Have you heard of false pregnancy aka phantom pregnancy? It’s when the body believes it is pregnant so it displays pregnancy sympotoms despite the fact that they aren’t actually pregnant. It can be caused by stress, anxiety, and many other factors such as a fear of becoming pregnant. It’s rare, but I’ve had it. The only real way to cure phantom pregnancy is for your doctor to show you an ultrasound and confirm that there is no baby. I got over mine from meditation, realization of my anxiety disorder, and the helpful people in this forum❤️
Kay👑💕 says
❤️GUYS!❤️ Guess what I found… So apparently there is this thing called cyberchondria. I know it sounds bad, but JUST KEEP READING! So since the internet is being used frequently everyday, some people decide instead of going to the doctor, they can search up their symptoms on google instead. The list of illnesses, medical conditions, and diseases that pops up alarms them. This causes cyberchondria. It’s a condition that causes extreme paranoia, anxiety and stress due to your brain believing you have some sort of serious medical issue. That’s probably what happened to y’all in this forum with the pregnancy thing. Turns out millions of people suffer from cyberchondria. Including me. Once I searched up my symptoms and concluded that I had LUKEMIA. I was so scared and paranoid but then i went to the doctor, and it was just a flu virus. Moral of the story is, never trust what you see online.
Maggie says
Thanks these girls really needed to calm down
ur mum says
leukemia is no joke my fourth cousin’s roommate who knew a guy who did drugs with a store clerk who had a mom who had a daughter who when to school were her teacher had an ex boyfriend who’s dog was beatin by a janitor who worked for OJ Simpson who once was in the same room with someone who had leukemia. so think again b4 ur comment about leukima #OJwasinnocient #ballerzneverdie
Maggie says
Everyone calm down white discharge is normal during the evolution of your body I’m only 12 I have a two there’s nothing to worry about you’re not pregnant if you have never had sex even if you have had sex there is a big possibility you didn’t get pregnant but if you had sex then you just lost your virginity