A Big Mistake – Could I Be Pregnant?

I’m thirteen and my boyfriend is sixteen. He is a really sweet guy and we were at his house. He said that we should try penetration? Just so that it wouldn’t hurt much when we really do it. I let it happen. When he was inside me we didn’t use a condom and he just got a little excited. And he had pre cum inside me. I’ve now missed my period and I haven’t been able to sleep. My boyfriend has been freaking out. So basically can i get pregnant from pre cum? Please help me. Please.

Miss Mistake (13)

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Dear Miss Mistake,

Ouch! I feel your pain. Do you know how long he was inside you? Could you clarify what you mean when you say he “got a little excited”? Did he actually ejaculate or just tell you he “squirted” just a little bit? Pre ejaculation fluid would be what might be present if he went inside you without climaxing and ejaculating. However, guys can partially ejaculate and send a small amount of semen into a girl and then hold back any more. If it was just “pre cum” (pre ejaculation fluid), your chances of becoming pregnant are pretty slim. However, if it was actual semen that he shot into you, then you could get pregnant from that. My next logical question would be when was your last period (what day did it begin) and what day did you have sex?

Having said all of that, your skipped period could very well be just caused by having sex for the first time (plus being nervous). Let’s hope that’s all it is.

Best luck,
Hannah

Comments

  1. I was on deposhot I started march12-2011 & it ran out august 18 & I had unprotected sex august 20 I want to know if I am pregnant .I sleep &eat a lot my breast are tender?

  2. Yes. Pre- cum is ejaculate. If he got excited.Most likely he had pre cum.I am a nurse, and will say this. If anything from him went inside you.And you’ve missed a period. Wait a few days and go to a Clinic such as Save A Life.There everywhere… But the answer is yes. Sperm lives inside pre-cum. Example! What comes after Pre ?
    For your sake,I hope your not…There is a over the counter pill. If you are sure you can’t adopt it out. But girls your age become moms everyday…Ya need to give that part a lot of Thought. Don’t let HIM pressure you. Best wishes, Amanda

  3. How about you not have sex at 13. You wouldnt be worried if you had respected yourself to wait….they biggest powerful tool a woman has is her virginity…That is your power…and at 13 you gave it up. I would like to know if your parents know….You should be ashamed of yourself.
    God forbid you are pregnant…You are still a baby yourself….a baby having a baby!..and i dont know why parents allow a 13yr old to have a boyfriend!…I hope nobody gives you advise so you can learn your lesson….
    Im sorry for the child that never asked to be planted…and if you have an abortion….I feel even more worse..Cause now you would be killing a child that never asked to be born…im telling you…girls these days want so bad to be grown….You are a child….go enjoy your childhood…thats why sex is meant for married couples..not for children…13….When i was 13 i was still playing with barbies….YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED…AND GO TALK TO YOUR MOTHER OR GRANDMOTHER OR AUNT…A FAMILY MEMBER YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE TAKING TO !!

  4. How about you not have sex at 13. You wouldnt be worried if you had respected yourself to wait….they biggest powerful tool a woman has is her virginity…That is your power…and at 13 you gave it up. I would like to know if your parents know….You should be ashamed of yourself.
    God forbid you are pregnant…You are still a baby yourself….a baby having a baby!..and i dont know why parents allow a 13yr old to have a boyfriend!…I hope nobody gives you advise so you can learn your lesson….
    Im sorry for the child that never asked to be planted…and if you have an abortion….I feel even more worse..Cause now you would be killing a child that never asked to be born…im telling you…girls these days want so bad to be grown….You are a child….go enjoy your childhood…thats why sex is meant for married couples..not for children…13….When i was 13 i was still playing with barbies…IM 24yrs old and still a virgin and i plan on waiting for my futur husband…who i am engaged to now…knowing i saved myself for him makes him so happy! .YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED…AND GO TALK TO YOUR MOTHER OR GRANDMOTHER OR AUNT…A FAMILY MEMBER YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE TAKING TO !!

    • Brooke you should be ashamed of yourself for judging another person! Everyone is different… That’s what makes us human!
      Loosing your virginity is a serious thing but it’s not the be all and end all! There are many girls out there who have lost there virginity at a young age and have now grown up to be married and are living happy lives! It is the girls choice. Thirteen is probably not the ideal age for most but its her choice! Her body is her own and you should respect that!
      As for waiting till marriage that is some people’s choice and that’s fine but it’s not right for everyone! Personally I don’t believe in waiting until marriage because I believe that it makes the male feel as though he has a dominance over you. But that is my opinion and my choice and I would never push that upon anyone just as you should not push your choices upon anyone!
      To be so judgemental is absolutely disgusting! Take a long hard look at yourself! This young girl did not post this to be told off she posted this to seek help!

  5. i am haveing a tight feeling at the top of my belly and i am bleeding from below and i allready had my monthly . idk what it is could i be preg ?

  6. hey my names kim i’m 22 and have two girls, your period could be late because off all the stress your having with the thought of being pregnant if you really are worried go to your doctor or local health clinic, i lost my virginty at 13 but used a condom i had my first daughter when i was 18. if you are pregnant its not the end of the earth and brooke she shouldnt be ashamed of herself just because u have saved your self doesnt mean every one has to. and sex isnt just for married couples its for people who love each other, i have sex every day and i’m not married but i love my partner with all my heart so keep your thoughts to your self and yeah people should offer her help it was a silly thing to do with out using contraception but no one deserves to be unhelped

  7. Hi im jenna, i have not started my 1st period, dont hv a bf, nvr had sex. I stay home at all times, so i cant buy a pregnancy test. Myy stomach is bloated, feeling wierd, tight and heavy. And i suffer from headaches. And i always feel like i wanna pee. All i do is just finger myself and rub my vagina on the floor. Could that cause pregnancy? Pls answer, thank you. (feelin worried and im actualy crying)

  8. Hannah, My girlfriend of 2 years and i were fooling around on our private beach. ( fooling around i mean hands only) and we decided to go into the water and this is where she offered the idea of putting just the tip in. i agreed and she didnt have it in there for more than 5 seconds and she immediately complained of pain so she took it out. can she be pregnant from this? please help im not really eating or sleeping and im uber stressed out about this.

  9. Whenever I have sex d sperm always come out when my man stand up wat should I do is there any drug for me to use

  10. When u have sex dont stand up immediately,DAT will also help.best of luck

  11. opeyemi says:

    Hi Hannah, I had my last period on d 8 ad 9 of may, 2016, and hv had sex like 6times now and feel several headache and cool in D night, my tommy is just paining small small ad I feel so week can I be pregnant pls help me out

  12. Herbal drug to give erection does it affect sperm count

  13. We have try many things but it seem not to avail

  14. We have try many things but it seem not to avail Hanna whot should i do pls I need halp

  15. Hey im 20 and my last period was August10 nd Sept13 i was bloody a little now today im bloody again..i sleep alot and eat alot. I have gain weight and have earaches and headaches amd teeth be hrutimg too i pee alot and have mood swings and i had a cold and i been feeling pain in my belly i get tried and my back be hurting..and my nipples are black and bumps on it amd my boyfriend eat a lot and sleep have headaches and he got a cold..am i pregnant i took home pregnant test amd says not pregnant.

  16. Hi, i’m 24 and still a virgin but i want to start having sex cause i feel i’m ready now. Please What’s the best pill to use after sex? Thanks.

  17. Hi I had sex a couple of weeks ago it was my first time I’m not sureness if it popped as he didn’t go fully in however I’m very very scared that he may have pre ejaculated inside of me and I may be pregnant I’m very nervous if I am or not we didn’t use any protection and I know for sure he never fully ejaculated inside me please can u advise me on what to do and think about

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