Safira (19) writes: I’m 19 years old. And i’m a virgin. Last week i met my bf. He fingered me and i’m scared of the fact that i’m pregnant. I know fingering cannot lead to pregnancy. But before fingering me my bf touched his privates and had pre cum in his hand.
Later he fingered me after 15-20 mins, but he wiped his hands before doing that. I had my last period on 10th january. I met my bf on 7th february. My cycle is usually of 30 to 32 days. I still didn’t had my periods.
Please help me. Am i pregnant? Can pre cum make me pregnant. :(
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You’re sure it was just pre-ejaculation fluid and that your boyfriend hadn’t fully ejaculated? You’d know based on how much fluid there was. Pre-ejaculation fluid is barely noticeable whereas semen is pretty goopey and there’s plenty of it (unless your boyfriend recently masturbated which might cut back on the volume of the fluid).
If we’re only talking about pre-ejaculation fluid, then you’re probably fine. It’s rare that a girl gets pregnant from that. However, if he had actually ejaculated on his fingers and then put those wet fingers into your vagina, then live sperm may have been introduced into your body (even without actually having sex), and there would be a chance of you getting pregnant.
As far as the time of month you messed around, typically a girl wouldn’t be ovulating around that time (which is good in your case). And, having your period delayed or skipped after an incident like this is pretty normal. Blame it on a mixture of nerves and stress and worries (are they all the same thing? Lol). You could help calm yourself down by taking a home pregnancy test in a week or so from now, but hopefully you’ll have it come back negative.