“Such a worrier” (age 17) writes, “My last period started on may 22nd, it lasted 5 days. Last night (June 3rd) I was with my boyfriend and he had his penis in me but I made him take it out because we had no condom. He didn’t ejaculate at all – but I’m worried about the possibility of pre-cum. Should I seek out a plan-b pill? I really do not want to, but my urge to not get pregnant is a little stronger. Is there a possibility I could be pregnant?“
Dear Such a Worrier,
Studies that have taken place to determine whether there is or isn’t sperm in pre-ejaculation fluid have returned mixed results. It appears that there is some sperm, but the volume is very low – in fact, low enough that if that same level were present in the sperm from a typical ejaculation, the guy would be classified”infertile.”
So … how do so many girls become pregnant when their boyfriends practice the withdrawal method? Well, here’s my take. When a guy is really “into it,” it’s possible for him to actually ejaculate a little (or a lot) without doing a “full ejaculation.” He might even tell you that he withdrew his penis in time before ejaculating though he’s bluffing (or he’s just hoping really, really hard that he didn’t loose his load and that, if you get pregnant, you’ll never blame him because it couldn’t possibly be him since he never ejaculated, and so on).
So, it really comes down to did your boyfriend partially ejaculate even the slightest? Pre-cum fluid’s chance for making you pregnant is extremely very slim. You’ll need to find out what happened – and, don’t forget, guys bluff about this all the time. Don’t ask me why.
The closer in time to you’re having sex that you take Plan B, the higher the probability for effectiveness. The greater the time gap, the lower the probability that Plan B will work. So proceed wisely.
Best of luck,
Hannah
hi,my last period was may.15,2010,since then i have missed the whole month of june my period.I been feeling sleepy,clear and white discharge,bloated,urine frequently,yet dont do #2 alot..having a hard time doing that,,,i took the test and both negative..maybe i did the test to soon?Can i be pregnant?
So So Scared
Im13 and had sex with my boyfriend and he said he came in me a tiny bit it. I dont know weather it was pre-cum or jst cum but im really scared incase he has got me pregnant. What can i do ? Do i go to the nurse in my doctors or just get a pregnancy test. If i get a pregnancy test will they sell one to me at 13 ?
funny things,im same age the same happened too my self,yes they will sell you one:) &if you are there should be a family planning in your local area,so you can go and take a pill too kill it,parents dont have too be aware of this either:P
Yeah, well here it is PRE CUM is CUM. It’s unlikely to get pregnant but there is still a chance. I’m not one to judge as I’m not perfect and have had sex but if you’re so worried about getting pregnant then either a. dont have sex or b. wear a condom – otherwise be prepared to be a mother at 13 years old or what ever age you are. At twenty I don’t even think I’d be ready to have a child. So here YES you can get pregnant but it’s unlikely – as the precum is usually just left over sperm/fluid from the last ejaculation.
If you’re worried go get plan B and take it with in 72 hours and YES they will sell pregnancy tests to people wh are 13, although they shouldn’t be buying them they will sell themm
last nite on 13th i had sex with my fiance, i felt some fluid beside my bedsheet n i told him when he checked his pennis he got to know its his im not sure whether it went inside me or not! he said tat its not hard sperm its the pre-cum n it wont make me pregnant n my periods date is on 24th.. but at time i went for a wash, so tat if any fluid of his dont stay in me.but im curious is tat right tat it wont make me pregnant?
Im 18 if you have oral sex can u get pregant? A Boyfriend and i where having Oral sex he didnt cum or anything but he tried to have intercorse so i covered my vagina with my hand i moved it for a second and his penis touched my vagina then i got up and moved could i get pregnant that way??
if you have oral sex and have no penitration wat so ever no intercourse and the guy didn’t cum wat are the chances of getting pregnant by pre cum? or getting pregnant at all?
Dear Dimond,
No, you wouldn’t get pregnant from oral sex. He would need to put sperm directly into your vagina (and have that sperm fertilize your egg) in order for you to become pregnant. If his penis merely touched your vagina very briefly, your chances of getting pregnant are practically zilch.
Best luck!
Hannah
Hiya,Am very scared its it possible to get pregnant from pre cum even when i took the moring after pill the same day?
Hi, i recently had sex with my boyfriend two weeks ago, and im due for my period any time, i was just wanting to know, he didnt go fully inside me, but he did pre-cum just a little before he went in but i had him wipe it, and we only did a little but it hurt so i had him take it out,
what are my chances of being pregnant?
hi im 19 and 15 days late for my period and about 3 weeks and a half weeks ago my boyfriend and i had sex but he pulled out as soon as he was about to come? is there a possibly chance i could be pregnant because of precum? ive just recently gotten a urine infection, ive had flu symptoms, ive been really bloated and my boobs feel bigger? :/
Hello…!! im just turning 13 and i had sex with a boy on march 13, 2011..!! my last period was in february and every since the day we had sex, i’ve had pregnancy symptoms including cramps and fatigue..!! does this mean im pregnant?
KayKay i Hope Not Cuz Your Wayyyyy Too Young! You Shouldnt Even Be Having Sex At 13! You Need Your Ass Whooped Grown Ass Lil Girl. You A Baby Yourself! smh Kids Having Kids. Cant Even Get A Job At 13.
no i meant we had sex on march 19, 2011..!! sorry.!!
Hi Hannah,
I’m 23 and the last time I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend was on March 7, 2011. My regular period was on the 25th of each month, and today is the 29th, and didn’t have my period yet. I took the test early today, and came out negative. Do you think I’m pregnant?
Trinity
I had sex with my boyfriend a few starts before my period should start. The condom broke and he immediatly pulled out. I took a day after pill the next morning and the second one 12 hours later. My period should’ve started on the 11th of april but its a few days late. I have cramps here and there along with tender breasts. Why hasn’t my period dropped?
hello,
here is my story im 19 years old and me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex and i know we shouldnt have but we did anyways my period came on April 6 2011and went off April 11 2011 and we had sex April 15-22 2011and i have white mucus substance coming out of me and im really scared because i dont know what it is and ive been really tired lately i know i havent missed my period for the month of May yet but i am having some pregnancy symptoms and i read that you can have some symptoms early. so can someone who know what is going on. help me. im going to the doctor on the 16th of May but until then i need info.
I had sex with out a condom with my bf last month on the 21 of April,my period were on the 4 of Aprile until the 8,the problem is this month i havnt seen my period due that date,is it because im changing dates or wt?
if you had sex and he cums in you , and the next day it comes it out… and two weeks later you start your cycle or implanation or whatever , can you be pregnant ?
Ah the same thing happened to me and it was during the week I was supposed to be most fertile but my period isn’t due til 2 weeks so I’m getin cramping n sore breasts I just dont know what the chances can be. And I don’t wanna freak out if it’s just symptoms of my period. Can anyone helps us or know ?
I had sex with my boyfriend, and yes, he did use a condom… But I still get really worried at time. Is there a possibility of me being pregnant even though he used a condom.
Ahhhhh! I get worried everytime we have sex…
Can someone please answer this?
Marie,
Using a condom is not 100% guaranteed to keep you from becoming pregnant; and, for that matter, even being on birth control pills can’t guarantee that either. Each method comes with its own probability for success. With condoms, a person might put it on incorrectly, it might tear, it might have a small hole, it might leak some semen when he comes out, etc. If a condom worked perfectly how it was supposed to, you would be fine. Most times a condom is used, a girl is fine. However, because the chance for human error is larger with a condom than with most other forms of birth control, it’s usually recommended to do another form of birth control to decrease your chances of becoming pregnant. So, all of that to say that if you carefully used the condom, it fit him well, he didn’t overflow, and he came out of you still with the condom on and not spilling out, you should be fine. If you are concerned that any of those things may have happened, then I would definitely recommend taking a home pregnancy test when your next period should come (but doesn’t).
Okay here’s the deal. I had my last cycle on the last days of May and I missed my cycle for the month of June, but get this I don’t have any of the symptoms of pregnancy what should I do?
I am really scared because… well lets just say that I tend to freak out when I miss my cycle!
hi i am 18 and i live with my boyfriend andwe have sex alot and he cums in me because we want to get pregnant and i was wondering why dont i gt pregnant is it my fault or shoud i just kill myself because he is unhappy with me not having his child his ex girlfriend of 7 years had a child with him and he cant have one with me what should i do i mean i want to get pregnant what do we do? now that i have been with him for 2 years it seems the more he finds out im not pregnant the more he turns away from having sex with me
I am pregnant from pre cum it does and can happen, I am living proof! Becareful if u are trying to avoid being pregnant.
Ok so i was with my boyfriend an he robed hes dick against my virgina an he pre-cumed and he didnt stick it in me at all but is there any way i could be pregnant and what are the first thing i would notice if i would be pregnant.
Hi, so i am 17 and my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex. But it was only for about 2 minutes as i knew it was wrong. And asked him to stop. He had only begun to pre cum when he was pulling out. But i am now a couple of days late for my period. Should i be worrying yet?
Was this your first time having sex? Are you on any kind of daily birth control pill? When you say he had only “begun to pre cum,” could you explain? Usually pre cum is barely noticeable (it’s more or less “lubricant” that comes out of a guy). When did your last period begin and end? Are your periods usually pretty regular?
i’m 18 and have been taking birth control for like 2 yrs, and i got off of it for a few months but got back on it. so for the past three months i have been taking my birth control with not missing any days, well me and my boyfriend has sex on the first day of my white pills(sugar pills) and he thought he precum inside of me alittle, and the next day i took Plan B, and since i know plan b can mess up your cycle and i normally start my period the 2 or 3 day of my sugar pills and now its been like 5 days late…..i was wondering if i was okay since i took the plan b and have been taking birth control?? and i have been having white thick discharge is what normal after taking plan b?? pleaseee reply back.
i have a boyfriend,and he wanted sex nd i was nerveous and didnt want to do it so i did and the condom split so tomorrow hes getting a pill will i be pregnet? reply back
The sooner you take Plan B (or Next Choice or iPill etc), the higher your probability for success. It’s usually best to take it within 12 hours of having had unprotected sex (or sex where the condom leaks, as in your case). Once he gets the pill, be sure to take it right away. As far as your chances of getting pregnant, when did your last period start and end?
Hi Hannah,
i had unsafe sex with my boyfriend right after 7days of my periods and next evening i had pills. after 5-7 days of sex i had may period. now i am seriously worried did i get pregnant??? Could u please tell who would i know?? Can i take pregnancy test before 1month of having sex?? what should i do?? Please tell me!!!!
Hi , I’m loren , I’m 15
TOday me & my boyfriend had sex we used a condom
When he cumed he took it off and he whiled the left with a cloth and we did it right after Agian Unprotcted , he did cum this time , but can I be pregnant by this!!D: Hellp Me!!!
First off all why the hell are you little girls having sex at 13?!! If your scared to be a mother keep you legs CLOSED! Otherwise deal with it and stop laughing bc you can also catch a disease. Grow up some. Kthanks(:
Hey, I have a question, and I hope I can get a reply.. I’m sixteen [too young, I know:/]. My boyfriend and I have had sex countless times, but we’ve always used a condom. There was one time where we didn’t use one, only for a little bit though, he didn’t cum inside me [maybe pre-cum though?]. The last time I had my period was 8-22-11 to the 26. I have few symptoms of being pregnant. I’ve taken home pregnancy tests but they’ve all come back negative, but it’s been two months without my period.. And I really haven’t been stressed, so I’d rather not hear it’s because of stress because that I doubt. And my family doesn’t have health care or anything, and I don’t have money to go see a doctor or anything… Could I be pregnant? And what should I do?
Hi, I’m 19 and had sex with a guy I’m seeing, I really like him and don’t want to say anything to him. We had unprotected sex on Monday night (7/11) after an unfortunate incident where the condom split. I know he didn’t ejaculate but I worry about pre cum. I haven’t really thought of it until now and I’m starting to really worry as I can’t take the morning after pill. Please reply with what you think of the chances of getting pregnant and what I should do next.
Thanks, Claire