Emma (age 22) writes, “I have never had sex, but me and my boyfriend like to mess around. the other night we were messing around but he was wearing a condom, at some point it broke but we were not sure when. and he did not comm in me but on me and everything was wet and i was not sure what was from me or him. I am worried that i could be pregnant because we were messing around. I know i should be on birth control but I’m still under my parents insurance and they would disapprove“
I would say that the chances of you being pregnant are slim. Was there sperm around your vagina? Did you take a shower right away? While it is possible for a guy to ejaculate outside your vagina and for some sperm to manage to get inside your vagina – and some people have gotten pregnant that way – it’s rare. You should be safe. But keep your fingers crossed until your next period comes. In the event that it doesn’t come, be sure to take a pregnancy test right away on the last day of your next expected period.
Best of luck,
It is very rare to get pregnant unless it was in your vagina. Sperm may “swim” fast, but if it was on your outter legs it is rare. He most usually must cum, or pre-cum inside you to get you pregnant.
I’ve been through something like this hun. It’s very exciting & scary @ the same time. I just took a bubble bath right away & the next day I took a pregnancy test… I wasn’t pregnant!!! But as I grew older I finally had triplets….
i worry a lot. so i had my normal period on november 13th, then november 27th i went to my boyfriends. i was going to give him a handjob and i think i had precum on my fingers. i then rubbed my vagina maybe for 10 secs. then stooped. i then went to the bathroom and went home and showered. on december 9th i took a pregnnacy test and it was very clearly negative. i then started my period on december 13th but it stopped on the 16th. should i be worried about being pregnant at all??!?!?!
please write back…please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hi im wondering what it means when your lower stomach hurts then you have runny poop. what does it mean and i still have pains like i have to poop. HELP!!!
i am having the same problem, me and my boyfriend mess around alot but we always have cloths on, ill give him a handjob and he will go and clean up and then he will finger me. i missed my period this month, we have never had sex but i never miss my periods and i have been worrying alotttt that i might be pregnant, please write back and tell me what to do.
I know what you mean, does anyone have any advice ?!
i was messing around about two anda half weeks ago woth a guy and although we did not have sex he did touch my vagina with his penis. i am not sure if any pre cum was on my vagina as it was very wet down there. i also had nicekrs on but he was kind of moving them out of the way so i dont want to fool myself completely by using that as an excuse! I am not due my period until the 20th of this month but i am terrified i am pregnant as i have a tender stomach it feels tight and i am urinating more frequently for the last two days however i am drinking more water but only a liltte more than usual. also i have had headaches for the past two or three days but i dont know if that from stress thinking about this. im not constipated but feel slightly bloated and look slightly bloated but only slightly.. please help me im really worried!