lynn (21) writes: My boyfriend and I had split up at the end of Oct in 2011 and on Nov 14 and 15 I had sex with a friend as a rebound. It was a mistake but it is haunting me now.
Well I got my period on either the 19 or 20 of Nov and it was a regular cycle. Me and my bf got back together on thanksgiving and had sex the next night. We had been together till around the 7 of dec.
It was on the 21st of dec I took a test and it was positive. According to my ultrasound I am due on Aug 26 which would have placed conception at the beginning of December give or take a few days.
I’m just terrified it could be my friends but I don’t think I was fertile those days since it was 3 or 4 dys before my period started.
Can you please help me out? I’m stressing out so bad and I know that isn’t healthy.
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Dear Lynn,
If I read you right, you just had sex with your friend on Nov 14 and then again on Nov 15, correct? And then I’m assuming you had sex multiple times with your boyfriend when you got back together?
Because you had your period on Nov 19/20, then you didn’t get pregnant with your friend (sigh of relief!). It’s definitely your boyfriend’s baby.
Best luck!
Hannah
Thank you for your help I’ve just been so nervous since I know you can still have your period and be pregnant. But I’ve done several online due date and conception calendars and it all adds up with my boyfriend. Thanks again!
A girl may experience bleeding, but she wouldn’t really have an actual period and be pregnant (that would be what we would call a “conflict of definitions.” Some girls have spotting but not a full fledged multi day period.
Good luck!
Hannah
Ok I’m coming to you again… I’ve been reading how even though I had sex with my boyfriend all my fertile days even up to my ovulation day and after that, it could still be my friends. I’m not sure how that’s possible considering I had my period just like normal. Not unless I’m just misunderstanding what I’ve read.. can you please help me again? Give me some facts or something.. I’m stressing out real bad again.. thank you
me my boyfriend had sex the day after my peorid was over. (april 10) we didnt use protection.about 2weeks later i noticed these little white dots on my nipples tht i am sure have NEVER been there before. their not on the skin part their on the very tip.not pimple like either.their is no fluid coming out but i am still concerned.today i noticed i was bleeding..not like a peorid though.it was really light, not even red more like an orangey-pink.i think its a bit too early to test though! help!
If you wasnt sleeping around you would know who the father is!!.. Maybe you should go on MAURY!!.. :-)
i’m guessing that since you tetesd negative on the 15th, then you would be pregnant from the sex on the 14th. there was enough time between october 24th and when you were tetesd on the 15th for it to be positive if you were in fact pregnant from that time
Yes It takes a while. It could even take up to 3 months for some women. Your body was pnrgeant and hormones were all over the place so now they are trying to get back to normal just like delivering a child. Your going to be out of wack with hormones for a while. Was this answer helpful?