Missed Period after Blow Job, Kissing & Oral Sex

Anita, age 18, writes, I’m 18 years old, with a very regular period and I nearly never break out. So, I never have had vaginal sex, however I have had oral sex with my boyfriend. I gave him a blow job and then kissed him and he ate me out, and I’m worried that some sperm may have travelled into my vagina. I also don’t know if my hymen is broken or not (I’m a dancer if that helps any). Anyways, my period is a day or so late, I’m a bit bloated/gasey, tired, have been breaking out, I think I lost a pound or two, my breasts are sore and heavier than usual but no sign of a period (I had cramps yesterday-Monday, but they went away.) I’m nervous I may be pregnant despite the fact I’m still basically a virgin. I’ve also started a new job working 40 hour weeks (never worked before) and I’m a bit stressed about doing a good job to impress my employers. Is it stress or pregnancy?

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Dear Anita,

Most likely your skipped or delayed period is being caused by stress with a mixture of nerves. The probability for you to get pregnant based on the situation you described (I’m assuming he ejaculated during your blow job?) is very slim. I’d conjecture that most girls have their hymens broken by the time they have their first vaginal sex (a tampon will break it, as will masturbating by putting an object into your vagina). You could take a home pregnancy test in a couple days, but my bet is that it will come back negative, because it would be very hard to get pregnant through sperm passing from your mouth to his mouth and then into your vagina.

Best luck!

Hannah

Comments

  1. Eleanor Harris says:

    I have never had virginal sex but I have had oral sex with my boyfriend. After I gave him a blow job (during which he ejaculated) we cuddled tightly and we were both naked. I am a day or so late for my period and I’m worried I may be pregnant. I am in my final year at school and I am under al lot of pressure with exams ect and I’m hoping that this is causing me to be late and not the fact I’m pregnant but I’m not sure what to do?

  2. Dear Author,
    I am in a same situation and am currently very stressful and anxious. Can you tell me so whats the final result? Hopefully I hope you didnt get pregnant.
    Would Really Appreciate your reply as I had insomnia for many days already due to this reason! Thanks!

  3. hi.. i had oral sex with my boyfriend on 14th dec 2016 and i had my last period on 15th nov 2016. i didn’t give him the blow job but he rubbed his penis on my vagina and today is 23rd dec 2016 and still i didn’t have my periods. i am not feeling tired, not going to the bathroom frequently, not having morning sickness. nothing unusal just except my periods are not coming. is there any chance of pregnancy?

  4. Alecia Smith says:

    Yes.But very rare.It depends on how much he chummed on your vagina.

  5. Missing perioda by blowjob girl become pregnant or not

  6. Me and my boyfriend kissed but I am not having my periods for last 3 months.. I took pregnancy test but they were negative.. I don’t have any symptoms also… Am I pregnant???

  7. Puja rana says:

    My bf kissed into vagina and fingered me does it causes pregnancy

  8. I can oral sex with my gf. When my gf is in periods (4th day)

    So it’s right or wrong

  9. AKASH SHARMA says:

    i sexed wid a girl with condom nd after tat we both got scared about getting pregnent so i pulled out my penis nd masturbated my penis….there no sperm thrown inside her vigaina but she is not having her periods nd we both are scared about getting her pregnant pls help…..

  10. AKASH SHARMA says:

    i sexed wid a girl without condom nd after tat we both got scared about getting pregnent so i pulled out my penis nd masturbated my penis….there no sperm thrown inside her vigwaina but she is not having her periods nd we both are scared about getting her pregnant pls help…..

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