Janette (16) writes: Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for a while but always with a condom. We always checked it thay there is no rips or tears after we finished. One time he put the condom backwards and stuck his d*** in me like less than 30 sec (sorry for the info) and then he stopped, removed it and got a new one.
Okay so The last couple months (3 months) my cycle has been 28-30 days but before that they were very irregular. So now I missed my period. It was due about 2 weeks ago. I’m stressing out and freaking out that I’m pregnant since I’m only 16. I took 3 home pregnancy test and they have all been negative. Is there a big chance I’m pregnant or is it most likely stress? Please help!
* oh also I’ve been having like cramps and a little pain in my abdomen with whitish discharge (a little) also, I feel a little bloated. Could that just mean I’m going to get my period soon?
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Dear Janette,
No need to be embarrassed providing details – that’s what we’re here for! I’m siding with the pregnancy test and going with you not being pregnant. It’s most likely just nerves causing your period to be late. Our bodies like to be very sensitive to our worries :) As far as the whitish discharge, check out this post about the different types of vaginal discharge (scroll to the lower part of the page). From what you’ve described, it doesn’t sound like anything to continue being worried about.
Cheer up!
Hannah
Hannah! Help me! Me and my bf had protected sex well I don’t know if you can call it sex because we couldn’t get it in. But on the 14th of Feb we tried but he put the condom on slowly but it hurt me so it was like only half way in, he took it off so that we could fool around then put a different one on. And tried again. The same thing happened, he didn’t get it in all the way, but I’m afraid that maybe there might have been pre ejaculation from when we fooled around, and I’m so so scarethatat I may be pregnant. I usually get my period anytime between the 15th and 22nd of every month. It’s only been 6 days since this happened because it is the20th today. I’ve been stressing out alot about it because he then got mad at me that it didn’t go the way he planned and wouldn’t talk to me for about 3 days. Idk if maybe I’m just scaring myself, Im trying to wait till the 22nd and pray that I get my period so that I don’t have to tell my mom, but I’m getting so anxious and worried. I don’t have my license so I can’t drive anywhere without my mom to get tested or anything. Can you help in anyway?? :( thankyou.
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You should be fine, Maddie. There’s no need to worry about being pregnant.
As far as his difficulty going in, you might want to try some personal lubricant which will help a lot. Even still, the first time for a girl isn’t usually very comfortable and tends to be downright painful.
Okay thank you so much! I haven’t gotten my period yet so that’s why I’m freaking out! I think maybe stress is delaying it but I’m still scared, and I’m not sure when or if I should tell my mom. But thank you!!
Yep, stress and worries are very powerful thing, especially when it comes to how they can cause fake pregnancy symptoms and delay periods.
Once I get it, I will be relieved but my body has been acting weird but I think I’m probably just scaring myself. I guess the only thing I can really do is wait two more days to see if I get it? Then worry about it if I miss this month?
Just be aware that your period may be delayed for a good while (as in a week or two or even skipped completely). There shouldn’t be any reason to have to tell your mom anything. If your period still hasn’t come within 2 weeks from now, it would be good for you to take a home pregnancy test (ask your boyfriend to pick one up at a drugstore/pharmacy) and give it to you. That will help alleviate any lingering worries. Again, I strongly believe you are not pregnant, but sometimes our minds like to see some physical proof before they begin to calm down. Lol.
Okay, thanks again so much!!! I really really appreciate it! :)
Anytime, Maddie :)
I still haven’t gotten it :( and my stomach always feels full and I’ve been so exhausted. But I still think it’s in my head, I just want to get it and it won’t come!
I got it nevermind:)
Hannah. Can you please help me! My period is five days late. I have been stressing lately and stressing even more now that my period is late. Yesterday, I noticed my breasts are a little sore. I’m freaking out that I might be pregnant. My boyfriend and I had sex 3 times in the past month, using the withdrawal method. I am not on birth control. My vagina has been sore and sort of itchy for the past 3ish weeks and I don’t know why. It has just been sore lately though. Another reason I’ve been stressing. I was at the gyno last week and he said nothing was wrong with me although I didn’t ask him about the soreness. Would he have been able to tell if I was pregnant when I was there? And do you think I could be pregnant?
Please help me. :(
Hannah I took plan b one step after unprotected sex and had thick white vaginal discharge , does this mean the pill is working?
HI, my gf and i had sex on friday(13th) and we had unprotected sex. i didnt cum inside her but we were worried that i might have precam. the next day we got plan b one step and she took it. after she taken the pill she felt fine. but the next day her stomach started to hurt and she said she was tired. but she wasnt sleepy. she said her body was just tired. she said her stomach was hurting alot but it was manageable. that day we took the pregnancy test just to see if anyting happened and it turned out negative. thn on tuesday (17th) she took the test again and it was still negative. her period was due on monday or yesterday. i was wondering if she might be pregnant. she doesnt have food craving or anything. she said her abdominal hurts little bit, her stomach is bloated little bit, she is tired, she doesnt have an appeitite to eat, and sometimes she is naesus. however, some of this symptoms are plan b one step symptoms as well. so im very confused. Right now we are waiting for her period. can anybody tell me if she might be pregnant or not??
hey im 16 and i had sex with two differents guys at the same day but at different time and no it wasnt a threesome but i know whos the father because he wasnt wearing a condom and i been getting this feelings: 1. i cant eat because i will get the feeling im going to vomit and somethings i do puke 2. the side of me hurts 3. my breast are sore 4. i will loose my breathe 5. i feel my stomach is getting bigger 5. i been skipping my period 6. and somethings iwill get food craving just junked food but i will still get the feeling im going to puke……also i havent take the pregnancy test because im afraid if i am and also i had unprotected sex……….what wrong with me am i preganant? please repond i need questions
Hi, me and my bf have been together for 4 months, we have a lot of sex and we never use condoms cause I’m on the pill, lately I have been feeling very weak and extremley tired, my belly is very painful and It feels weird, my lower back hurts, I have been feeling dizzy but I haven’t been sick, also I have been craving lots of things, and my belly has got bigger, I had a very light period for three days it started on the 18th april and finished on the 21st, I haven’t had a period since them and I’m still taking the pill I took two pregnancy tests but they were both negative I did these tests last month maybe it was too early? But I still think I could be pregnant now? I’m 16 and very scared. Could yoiu give me some advice
I’m so confused
I had sex for the first time last year dec 16th to be exact..we had unprotected sex and he did the pull out method.My periods were late for a week..then came around 26th.In jan it came in 21st from then the symptoms kicked it.Felt really nauseaous,my tummy bloated and so on.Then in feb my periods arrived on 22nd..and the symptoms carried on.From March onwards my boobs went all tender on me and then i spotted on the 16th and stopped and then my periods came on the 22nd!! And after my periods finished my boobs stopped paining.End of march i started feeling movements in my tummy..i thought i’m prolly imagining things..!!Whats confusing me is that every month my boobs get tender till i get my periods and after it ease down,in April same thing happend and lots of movements. i got all the symptoms,discharging,cramps in my abdomen,pelvis pain,back pain,dark blue veins by my boobs and hands,n my tummy popped out plus i got stretch marks goin on by my boobs,hips,thighs and ass,hungry all the time.N today brownish discharge goin on n sore boobs from beginning of May!What on earth is happening to me?What else could move in my tummy but a baby ehh im just so confused,plz help!