I’m thirteen and my boyfriend is sixteen. He is a really sweet guy and we were at his house. He said that we should try penetration? Just so that it wouldn’t hurt much when we really do it. I let it happen. When he was inside me we didn’t use a condom and he just got a little excited. And he had pre cum inside me. I’ve now missed my period and I haven’t been able to sleep. My boyfriend has been freaking out. So basically can i get pregnant from pre cum? Please help me. Please.
Miss Mistake (13)
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Dear Miss Mistake,
Ouch! I feel your pain. Do you know how long he was inside you? Could you clarify what you mean when you say he “got a little excited”? Did he actually ejaculate or just tell you he “squirted” just a little bit? Pre ejaculation fluid would be what might be present if he went inside you without climaxing and ejaculating. However, guys can partially ejaculate and send a small amount of semen into a girl and then hold back any more. If it was just “pre cum” (pre ejaculation fluid), your chances of becoming pregnant are pretty slim. However, if it was actual semen that he shot into you, then you could get pregnant from that. My next logical question would be when was your last period (what day did it begin) and what day did you have sex?
Having said all of that, your skipped period could very well be just caused by having sex for the first time (plus being nervous). Let’s hope that’s all it is.