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Am I No Longer a Virgin after Fingering?

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Shika (16) writes: Hannah, well I am 16. my bf just fingured me n then later blood started coming. he didnt use his penis. whats does that mean? am no more a virgine??

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Dear Shika,

It’s hard to tell exactly what may have happened. Was he really rough with his fingering or did he really go deep inside you? Have you/do you wear tampons? Probably some tissue tore (perhaps even part of your hymen), and that triggered the bleeding. There is some delicate tissue down there which your teenage hormones have made even more delicate.

As far as whether you are still a virgin, there are many different definitions people have for what defines a virgin. Some would argue that having oral sex would make you no longer a virgin while others would say that having a guy finger you in your vagina would make you no longer a virgin. Or, you can stick with the very strict rule that until a guy puts his penis in your vagina, you’re still a virgin. I’ve even heard some say that if a guy puts his penis in you but doesn’t ejaculate, you’re still a virgin. It gets quite complicated, if you know what I mean :) If you are trying to stay a virgin for that very special one (i.e. for when you get married), then be careful, as fingering will usually make you (and/or your boyfriend) very hungry for the full dose.

Best luck!
Hannah

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  1. tracy says

    January 6, 2015 at 4:22 pm

    Hey, I gave my guy a bj, and he fingured me, I am 13 I’m a virgin could I be pregnant :( plz help me!!

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  2. Mr. Fennick says

    July 8, 2015 at 4:08 pm

    When the two of you got together to partake in oral sex, there is a reason why the word sex remains in the title. When this occurs, he may not ejaculate violently but he shall leak after its over. You also. The very participation makes you a virgin no longer. You had sex.

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  3. Alecia Smith says

    December 30, 2016 at 2:24 am

    I’m 13.A few weeks ago my boyfriend invited his friend over.My boyfriends friend kept looking at my private part.It felt so good.Soon I was staring at his.My boyfriend went home because his mom said so.I told his friend he could also go home.After I said that he grabbed me and kissed me.It felt amazing.We did that for like forever.He pulled my shirt and bra off.Then took off my pants and panties.He pulled his dick out.I sucked it.Then I said I shouldn’t have sex without a condom.He fucked my asshole.It felt amazing.Cum dripped down my pussy.Am I pregnant?

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  4. Kai ally says

    January 9, 2020 at 10:15 pm

    Few weeks before new year went to my bf house just twice and we had sex but on condom cos have never done it before he saw my body was too tight he stopped and used his fingers later removed the condom and use his dick then he noticed his cum about to come out he removed it from my body and poured it on his bed but don’t know if it got in me) next day without condom but not with his dick I sucked his dick but wen the cum came out I was not aware of it and I wasn’t sucking it any more but mistakly locked it Now am scared am I pregnant 😭😢😭😢have not been able to see my period for sometime now and and am feeling painful under my abnormal and my left belly side please help me out please 🙏

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  5. Blessing says

    September 24, 2020 at 1:27 am

    You should run tests and no if actually you are pregnant. Because you can’t continue gessing it

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