Safira (19) writes: I’m 19 years old. And i’m a virgin. Last week i met my bf. He fingered me and i’m scared of the fact that i’m pregnant. I know fingering cannot lead to pregnancy. But before fingering me my bf touched his privates and had pre cum in his hand.
Later he fingered me after 15-20 mins, but he wiped his hands before doing that. I had my last period on 10th january. I met my bf on 7th february. My cycle is usually of 30 to 32 days. I still didn’t had my periods.
Please help me. Am i pregnant? Can pre cum make me pregnant. :(
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Dear Safira,
You’re sure it was just pre-ejaculation fluid and that your boyfriend hadn’t fully ejaculated? You’d know based on how much fluid there was. Pre-ejaculation fluid is barely noticeable whereas semen is pretty goopey and there’s plenty of it (unless your boyfriend recently masturbated which might cut back on the volume of the fluid).
If we’re only talking about pre-ejaculation fluid, then you’re probably fine. It’s rare that a girl gets pregnant from that. However, if he had actually ejaculated on his fingers and then put those wet fingers into your vagina, then live sperm may have been introduced into your body (even without actually having sex), and there would be a chance of you getting pregnant.
As far as the time of month you messed around, typically a girl wouldn’t be ovulating around that time (which is good in your case). And, having your period delayed or skipped after an incident like this is pretty normal. Blame it on a mixture of nerves and stress and worries (are they all the same thing? Lol). You could help calm yourself down by taking a home pregnancy test in a week or so from now, but hopefully you’ll have it come back negative.
Best luck,
Hannah
Safira says
I’m sure that he didn’t ejaculated and it was his pre cum. And he even wiped his hands before fingering me. His fingers were completly dry. Still i’m scared that i’m pregnant. :(
Promise says
I think its highly impossible for u 2 become pregnant because he used his finger no his penis
Safira says
I finally got my periods 2 days back. So i’m not pregnant. :)
Hannah says
Happy for you, girl!
bailee says
I’m in the same situation as you are, but the day this happened was my ovulation day!!! Please help…. Im 15 & scared out of my mind! I’m almost positive that my boyfriend pnly had precum & had not ejaculated and he’s not sure if he had any on his fingers or not… Please … need help.. As soon as possible, im supposed to get my period in about a week!!! So…..
Catie says
my boyfriend he had touched his penis and there was cum and before he fingered me i felt his hand and waited a few seconds and then i wiped some of it off with my hand then he fingered me what are the chances i could get pregnant i didn’t want him to finger me that time but he kept insisting and i’m only 16 soon tobe 17 also a few days before i would have brown discharge and then i had white to clear discharge
Catie says
*not before °after° i had brown discharge i always get brown and white discharge when i am about to get my period but i have been stressing out about this since last week