kk (age 20) writes,
hi hanna i have sex with my partner on my birthday which is in february 9 since then i havent been myself i went to the doctor and did a pregnancy and it came negative however i am now experience tender breast, back pains and also belly pains. why is this and my period date is not due anytime soon???? and can i be pregnant if my partner ejaculates in me even though he had on a condom????please help me.
Dear kk,
Condoms are far from perfect, yet, if used properly, they can still be quite effective. Did you notice any sperm leaking from the condom after he pulled out or did you notice any sperm dripping from the outside of the condom? It’s also helpful to examine a used condom (yuck!) and look for any signs of holes. You are probably fine, but I would still recommend taking a urine pregnancy test once it’s time for your regular period to start; then, if your period doesn’t come (and, keep in mind that stress and worrying can cause it to be late or skip), be sure to take a second home pregnancy test after it should have ended.
Good luck!
Hannah
Mireyda says
Well I was trying to get pregnate the last 4 months but the first 3 months that I was trying I would get m ty period but it was real heavy like I never had that period anywats this months my period was late by a week and somme days but now I got it light nirmal but tjeres 2 weeks that past and now im feeling dizzie with nause and alot of headache and back pain..is a possiblyty that iim pregnate??
Mea says
Hi, I am 16 and I am going through a serious scare. My period last month came very early and it was light but this month it came early and it is spotting and it has been going on since Friday night and this is Monday morning. I have been very dizzy, had nausea, Tender breast (Dark around nipples also), Swelling, Hard stomach, lower abdomen has formed a “V” shape, Frequent Urination, and very tired (Seems like I can never get enough sleep). I have taken a pregnancy test and I don’t know exactly when it might have happened but I have a good idea. Could You please help and give me a little advice.. Thank You!!!
Francisca says
I have sore breast and if I squeeze some liquid comes out my husband and I have been trying to have another baby for the last 3 years and nothing and get like little cramps in my stomach I’m supposed to get my period on the 27 th of April took a pregnancy test and was negative
jennifer says
Have had very sore boobs and some pain in the ab area. my period is over due, dont know what is going on. what can i do 4 my boobs they hurt soo bad!
Jip says
My rhogam shot didn’t hurt with my first two prnniaecges so I was always all Really, guys? Buck up! It’s not that bad. Yeah, not so much this time. I had mine a few weeks back at my 26 week appointment and it hurt like a mofo. I specifically remember being told to bear no weight on my hip during the shot with my first two kids, but the nurse didn’t remind me this go round so I had my weight on that side. Must have been the culprit.
tybaby says
Hi hannah my boyfriend and had sex on the 23 of april wich i was ovulating and yes he ejaculated in me come may i got my period a day early it lasted for 4 days and it was really light that i didnt need a tampon. I usually get my period and it last about 5 days and really heavy after my period ended i had spotting on and off for two days now my nipples are sore my back is killing me certain things i eat makes me naseaus. What could this be? Also negative ept test.
N says
Weve been trying to get pregnant for 4 months now. This last month has been HELL!! My breasts are sooo sore, extremely tired, irritable, nauseous, headaches, back pains, all the pregnancy symptoms that I had with my first son but I have taken 3 pregnancy tests and nothing! My period was due on May 7th, i got something (spotting not enuff for a tampon) that lasted 4 days (usual is 7/heavy) and a bit of nipple secretions from my right breasts. I thought I had a bug but I cant seem to shake it. Help Please!
N says
Oh… I was suppose to get my period on May 7th but spotting came on the 2nd of May… sorry i missed that part
Kathleen says
Hi. I’m 21 years old and ttc. I went off my pill, half way through my packet 3 weeks ago. We had sex all that week and then I got my period. This week, after having sex all last week, I have very sore breasts and nipples, slight stomach ache, bigger area around my nipples. I took a test but it was negative. Is it too soon to tell? Or am I thinking I might because we are ttc? I just feel pregnant. Please help?
Hannah says
Kathleen,
Yeah, it’s probably still too early to tell. When was the date of your last period? Sometimes it takes a little while, after going off the birth control pill, before your body gets back into a “fertile state.” But, with some people, just missing the pill for a couple days can make you get pregnant. I’d wait until it’s been a month since your last period and until you know you’ve missed it. Even then, the pregnancy test might not be sensitive enough to detect any low levels of hCG that might be in your system if you are indeed pregnant. You may then want to wait a week after that latest test to try taking another test.
Good luck!
Hannah
Mindy says
I am really worried about two and a half weeks ago my breast started hurting really bad the pain was horrible! In all my years I have never had sore breasts except one time in my life!! My breast have went up a good cup size and they feel really heavy. The last period I had was really short like two and a half days of med/light and some spotting this month I was tthree days late and I’m never late and it was med/light for two days and the first day I did have some blood clots but not a lot and the blood didn’t seem like more nomal periods! (I’m a heavy bleeder five/seven day) I’ve had a headache none stop my backs been killing me I’ve been really sharp with my friends and I’m not like that at all I’m always happy go lucky and I’ve been crying and upset over everything! I’ve taken maybe ten preg test but they all say negitive!!! What’s going on I feel pregnant I’m so lost I need some help any info would be great!
Sherri says
Ive had my period since I was 10 and have always been irregular. Ive even gone a year withour it before. Lately ive have just a couple dizzy spells and the past few days my nipples have been tender to the touch, and ive had cramping pain in my lower ab on the riight… I took a home test last weekend and it came up neg. Should I still be worried?
Danielle says
So, I’m 16. now before anyone goes and says I’m still a baby myself ect, I’ve read a thousand of those speeches, I get it. February 20th was about a day or 2 after my last period ended, and my byfriend and I had… sex, and our “thing” broke. we told his mother immediately. and she said I can take a test March 10th. I took 2, both negative. The week after it happened, I felt nauseated, got headaches, and lost my appetite, but those 3 things always happen, so I wasn’t that worried. but then I got dizziness, stomache and back pains, and tender breasts this week. I’ve also been peeing and eating a little more now. My last period came the 12, which is today, and still NO cramps, which I usually get about a WEEK before. I have Osteogenesis Imperfecta/Brittle Bone disease type 1, and twins run on both sides of mine AND Aaron’s families, and I’m not sure if my body can carry twins because of my bone disease. Please Help?
Danielle says
Also, I have excessive tiredness, and I’ve been VERY irritable and emotional.
sarah says
So I’ve been trying to stay calm but I’m in need of some answers. My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex March 10th. I started having really bad stomach cramps around the 17th then had what seemed like an abnormal period for me. There was blood clots which only lasted a day. Then light spotting afterwards. Now I am having a hard time sleeping because my stomach feels very uncomfortable, dull pain, bloating, and a lot of pressure. My breasts are so tender walking hurts or even a slight touch and my nipples are sore to the touch. I feel hungry all the time but when I eat 3 bits I’m stuffed. I am tired 24/7 and feel light headed and dizzy all the time. Ive been having vaginal discharge, peeing more frequent, and nauseated around few foods. I’ve taken 2 pregnancy tests but they both came out negative. I don’t know if I’m mentally freaking myself out or what. Please help!
natasha dean says
i have had 3 kids so i should actually know if im prego or nt but after i had my 3 child i had the essure tubal done i was also told it dont really work but i was also told it does and now almost a year later im havin all the signs of being prego but all urine and blood test say positive and im 3 in a half months late well ive had spotting all 3 months i dnt have a period till the 22nd what should i do am i prego
Juju says
Hey. I have been praying and asking God to give me a child. In April I have sex with my partner. And we didn’t use any protection. I saw my period but it was not normal. It came spotting. Light pink, red than brown than stop. After that I had back pain cramp in my abnormal it been two going to three months I have not seem my period. I took the test it came negative. I don’t know what to do. My breast starting to get sore. Around the nipple darker and heavily now and stomach starting to poke out. Am I pregnant. I stay tired all day and sleepy
laura says
Hi, i am beside myself worrying. My parterner and i are ttc we had unproptecteed sex all last month and on the days im most fertile. It has been a monthvsince my last period ive been feeling sick a lot, been having a brownish pink discharge and my breasts are sore all of which are signs of pregnancy however i have had three negative test but still no period can anyone give me advice on what to do next??
lillie says
Ok I had my tubes tired on may 6th 2003 after my youngest was born. Now im having odd periods couple days of spotting and one full day of bleeding on top of this I have tender breast sensitive nipples frequently urination lower back and hip pain but when I take a test it comes out negative can anyone help? Idk what’s going on!
Sincerely
Lillie
Marie says
Hi Mindy,
I really feel what you’re going through, I took many tests and all said negative. I have a son, and with him, I only was tired alot and did’nt even know until i took the test when i missed my period 4 days late. That was 5yrs ago. Have you had your period, or are you still waiting for it? I am still waiting for mine , but will be taking more tests soon.
I feel:
Nausea all kinds of times, but nothing actually comes up
lower back pain
Nipples hurt so bad, not like my regular pms symtoms
my belly button area hurts
slight headaches, but go away if i eat
eat weird foods
sleep alot
I don’t want to see the doctor, because you go to one and they ask you whats going on and when you tell them, they only go by the basis of what you tell them. They don’t run tests, they want to see you for 5 min , but been waiting for 30. only to be told you’re NOT pregnant. I read your comment and out of all the comments yours was what i have been feeling. Maybe there is no help for us.
Chloe says
Hi Hannah,
I’m 17 and I’ve had unprotected sex with my boyfriend, i just really need your help as I can’t go to my mom for it. What’s happened is, I’ve been getting a stomachache now for God knows how long, a week maybe. It’s abit like what you get when your due on your period. The pain is so bad I can’t move and gives me dead legs near the top of my thighs! My nipples are also turning brown I see, so I’m so worried!!! I’ve took a pregnancy test but it said negative, so I’m not sure what’s going on please help me!
tracy says
Hello I am having lower abdominal pain and tender breasts and tiredness and craving weird things and having mood swings and I haven’t had a period I spotted for two days in January I have taken hpts and they have been negative but I had the same problem when I was pregnant with my Lil girl they couldn’t find out I was really pregnant till I was four months could the same thing be happing now
tracy says
Hello I am having lower abdominal pain and tender breasts and tiredness and craving weird things and having mood swings and I haven’t had a period I spotted for two days in January I have taken hpts and they have been negative and I have been having nausea at night really bad and during the day I can’t sleep even though I am tired and I have been having weird dreams and my daughter has changed she has been more clingy and being bad acting out and my husband has been feeling sick and moody so what could be going on like I said the Dr couldn’t tell I was pregnant with my Lil girl till I was four months it wouldn’t show up in urine
fanisa says
have had a 1day period last months n thoted that am pregnant coz I always eat toi much, sore breast, dizzy sometimes feeling like vomiting always urinating and I tested but came out negative
Bibi says
I finish my period Jan 26 and my breast is paining me I now use urine pregnancy test it now bring positive so I used postinor 2 the second day I now do the urine test again it now bring negative but any blood didn’t come out but my breast is still paining me am I still pregnant